My boyfriend is in his 30's and he seems to ejaculate pretty quickly (after 5 minutes). To me it would seem that as men age they would be able to last longer...am I wrong to think this?
2006-11-17 12:49:54 · 6 answers · asked by Tristan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A few times he blames it on being sensitive..if I slow things down that should help right?
2006-11-17 12:50:34 · update #1
Well I can see your not getting the help you need here. In the first place what's a doctor going to do? if your healthy, have a good laugh with his friends.
Have you ever heard of foreplay...you don't jump in a saddle and jab the horse with your spurs. You gently get in the saddle and urge the horse forward then slowly let him pick up the pace and go a little faster, get it?
You start with foreplay. Get a porno movie and take it easy on him, keep your fingers to yourself for awhile. Let him do the playing, let him do you first a few times then let him in Honey and finish the job. I'll bet your going to go from 15 minutes to 45 in nothing flat. Remember let him do the riding, you do the sitting and keep those fingers to yourself.
2006-11-17 13:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man that's tough. I feel for you. Does he ever talk about it? What about a cock ring? I guess if he knows it bothers you and the two of you are able to talk about it (though I can't imagine any relationship where this is the case) then something can be done and all hope is not lost. Hmmm. I suppose he's tried distracting himself. My last boyfriend was 37, and he could last a long time. I wish you the best.
2006-11-17 20:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like he needs to see a doc to find out why this is happening
after 5 mins, is he able to perform?,could be he gets too excited
maybe he's really turned on with you
I wouldn't worry
good luck
2006-11-17 20:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by msalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm... Some guy do cummed fast... he's consider slow compare to me... haha... me can cummed less than 1 min... but normally its for the 1st round only... the continuos round will be more longer i guess...
2006-11-17 20:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he needs to see a doctor...
2006-11-17 20:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
premature ejaculation...go see doctor!
2006-11-17 20:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋