i have a have a lovely girlfriend and she loves me,now that ive fallen for her my head seems all over the place .i go from being happy to be being confused and scared in a short space of time.im scared that my behaviour of this may ruin things.what can i do?
2006-11-17 12:33:09 · 10 answers · asked by lisasbarred 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Quick Fix/ Do you love her? YES. Have you been hurt in the past? YES. Who cares my friend. You are franklly just scared. Moments of intimacy cover it up sometimes and that is why you feel happy. Let go of this fear. This girl you have in front of you is going to make you very happy. Let go of your past, and live. Otherwise, the next question you are going to be asking us is" How do I get her back?"
2006-11-17 12:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by EternalBlueMemory 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 16:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by believing in yourself and liking yourself then the fear will go away. She is with you and loves you because she can see what a good person you are.
You will only ruins things if you keep showing her that she is wrong.
Believe that you deserve to be happy and it will happen :-)
Good luck.
2006-11-18 23:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you confused and scared about? I would figure that out first. It sounds like you might be a little insecure or have low self esteem. Just try and relax and be yourself. Have fun and enjoy her company. :)
2006-11-17 12:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by U2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey. dont worry ive had the same. just take deep breaths and let it flow out of you. anyway she loves you for your so dont try to be any different.
2006-11-18 02:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by big.fishes2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how your feeling, but be gentle. Also try and keep your mind occupied. Sex helps.
2006-11-18 03:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by kitpoodle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax, it'll pass.
2006-11-18 04:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by Eso_ uk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get help
2006-11-18 06:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest ....if she don't like you she will walk
2006-11-17 12:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and let it go
2006-11-17 12:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋