i cant just not have her in my life because i have to see her EVERYDAY and for the fact that i DO love her and i dont want her not in my life.. were not together anymore but i still need her around. and vise versa. ...but i hate her malvoinent behavour...because shes so good at it and im 1 one only a few people who no how she really is.. what should i do?
2006-11-17 12:28:53 · 4 answers · asked by holden2031 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
=I was going to suggest that you make yourself unavailable to her so that you can see for yourself what she is REALLY all about. Then I re-read the question and it seems that you need her more than she needs you SO that means to me she is using you and your own self-esteem is way out of whack. Click on the link below and read about co-dependency. I think you will be amazed. Best wishes
2006-11-20 10:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You're obsessed. It's unhealthy. RIP the bandaid off!
2006-11-17 12:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not "need" her. You want her. Stop allowing her into your life. You already know what you need to do. Just do it!
2006-11-17 12:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOSE HER!!!! LOSE HER!!!! LOSE HER!!!! trust me, i was married to one for 3 years! she will lie, cheat, and steal to make you believe her BS! she will cause you nothing but heartache and pain! and because she's manipulative, that makes her Vindictive too! i've been through 3 years of that crap, i dont want you to also! lose the *itch! Please, good GOD, lose her!
2006-11-17 13:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by mikey_cody_82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋