Is there anything wrong with being a loner.
2006-11-17 12:18:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no absolutley not
sometimes its better that way because people cause alot of unnecessary drama in ones life
2006-11-17 12:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by AlishaM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its nothing wrong, but you have no companion to share and care for you in the long run. If you being a loner than who is going to take care of you during your old ages?
2006-11-17 12:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by THILLAI a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that i can think of that's wrong with being a loner is how people seem to push that you should be doing something.
i get it constantly from people i work with and other people.
i have a new neighbor but she is someone i have associated with in the past on a few occasions, i was doing yard work and she was walking past me and said hi and told me she lives next door now and why... before she said bye she tells me i should join her some night at this local bar/restaurant. i said thanks,but no thanks,i prefer to be alone. i don't think she liked my answer because she went on about how i should still join her.
2006-11-17 12:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Cymbaline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,there nothing wrong with being a loner..being a loner makes you stand out..people will want to know who you are
2006-11-17 12:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you are not alone. Believe it or not, there are others just like you. At times it's ok to be a loner and have that alone time to yourself. I know what you 're going through, and it's hard...really. Maybe you should consider being more sociable?
2006-11-17 12:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by Rebel6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. But you should always try new stuff (like not being a loner) too.
2006-11-17 12:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by bgii_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really, some people are just very independent and have strong individual personalities, now if its because your shy or have a problem with people, or social problems, then it might not be great, you might want to talk to someone about it. But otherwise, independence is fine. you should still try to make a few friends though, you dont have to have a whole lot, or be in a big social group, but friends are a need, so one or two would be a great thing.
2006-11-17 12:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Its Josie! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a loner and it's ok i have a couple opf friends but ta;lk to them whenever.Just don't stay in the house all the time get out and do things
2006-11-17 12:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Dawn l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saw this one a few days ago.....no I don't think so as long as your happy! And as long as you know why your a loner.....are you hiding?...or just do not like to deal with people...some people have that naturally....make great scientists!...poets ect!
2006-11-17 12:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually if your a people person than maybe yeah but being independant isn't bad at all it's really not being a loner.You discover so many things when your by yourself its good and i think that when you pay attention to yourself people will notice and come along.It just takes patience and time TRUST ME I KNOW!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-17 12:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by FaBuLoUs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, as long as you are happy with your own company. I have lots of friends but sometimes i enjoy being alone, because i don't tire myself out and I'm not always trying to please someone all the time, so sometimes its cool. Sometimes though, you do need other people.
2006-11-17 12:23:13 · answer #11 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋