my friend recently told me she USE to CUT herself...IM THE ONLY ONE THAT KNOWS....well i was so pissed off at her because she USED to do that...but it was really worried and scared for her.....today she mouthed "i did it again" she looked like a little innocent girl..about to cry..her chin shivered and i felt like hugging her and crying. she raised her sleeve and she had about 5 cuts. it was horrible. i looked away and she put the sleeve down. she used to be my best friend a couple of years ago. i told her "hey why? " she didnt want to talk about it in class. i told her i would call her and if she didnt pick up th phone i would keep on calling her and go to her house. I want her to stop!!! how do i help her?
2006-11-17 12:01:04 · 7 answers · asked by Scarlett 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you in particular cant make her quit. you need to seek help for her. because obviously she wants it other wise she wouldnt have told you. and she sees you as a good friend in order to tell you. she might get mad at first if you seek help for her, but in the long run she'll thank you.
2006-11-17 12:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by poser998 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She needs to get professional help. People who cut themselves do it because it is taking away there emotional pains from inside. Dealing with physical pain feels better than having to deal with the reality of emotional pain. She has a lot of hurt inside and needs professional help to over come her issues.
2006-11-17 20:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay at her place or invite her to Ur's and try to find out why she is doing it and try to help her as much as u can. from what i think its between u two no one else well except if she told someone else.
be with her for a while don't leave her site
2006-11-17 20:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by Edvard F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking is the best way to tell her. talk to her and your mom... look i went to a caounselor and she said... If someone is hurting themselves or urting you is the only time you need to tell an adult.
2006-11-17 20:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by Double A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it say that you can help her fix this problem then go see a doctor
2006-11-17 20:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie Smith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell someone about it before she kills herself doing it and if u don't it probably wont get any better
2006-11-17 20:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by Tygge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes really hurt i know how she feels how was about to kill my self,but talk to her help her.
2006-11-17 20:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋