2006-11-17 11:34:20 · 20 answers · asked by punky 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I'm sorta in that perdicament now. If you want to.....by all means. I want to, but.......I don't want to be pushing around a baby carrage at 16 years old. If you do, just as I will, deffinitly use condoms (make your b/f), and be very careful, check expiration date, make sure it aint broken, make sure he didn't have it in his pocket, ect. Also, I heard of a spermicide gel, it kills sperm, and is also a lubricant. But, if you dont, then if you feel in danger, you should tell somebody. Or, if you really like the person, tell them I don't want to do this yet, maby on a later, more appropiate time. Hope this helps! Good luck.
2006-11-17 13:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok sweetie here is the cold hard truth - if he is pressuring you even though you've already said you are not ready he is selfish and doesn't care about you. Sex complicates relationships ALOT! being a teen is complicated enough without adding the emotions, the STDs and the babies that can come from having sex. T.v., magazines and movies do not depict the emptional side of sex - but believe me it is there. It is a very important aspect and meaningless sex drains you of your self-worth and your integrity.
You MUST respect yourself and your body. You will feel empowered if you listen to your inner voice rather then giving into his. You will KNOW there will be NO questions in your mind when it is the right guy, the right time and the right place FOR YOU. When it is - make sure he is screened for STDs first and do NOT have unprotected sex.
2006-11-17 21:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by family_matters 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyday of my life! I still refuse to have sex at my young age though because morals are important to me.I want to get married to the person I love and then sex can come along. You think the pressure 2 have sex is bad now, think about the pressure of being a pregnant teen. A struggling pregnant teen at that.
2006-11-18 00:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by Just Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was pressured into having sex my first time even though I said no, and to this day I regret not being stronger and walking away. But I thought I was in love and if I didnt do it I would lose him. So it happened and we broke up anyway about two weeks later and know I have found the person I wished I would have saved myself for. So I understand if it has happened to you, and for people in the future I also stress the fact that its soooooo much better to wait and not have any regrets
2006-11-17 19:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kaliyah's here! 4-30-08 7lb 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would be surprise if there are people who have never been pressured. You gotta make the decision before crunch time so that you already know the answer. I tell my kids to blame things on me if they cant find the right way out of a bad situation..."my parents will kill me if I do this!"...or come up with a sarcastic response " will your mom or mine babysit the baby so we can go to graduation?"
2006-11-18 00:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by my2cents 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ive never been pressured to have sex. I would just walk away. I am waiting till I am married to have sex.
2006-11-17 19:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by lil_danca06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How Can I Deal With Sexual Harassment?
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2006-11-19 05:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but thats something i wont do is pressure a girl to have sex.
2006-11-17 19:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
just recently. my firend had sex and pressured me to. we're only thirteen. i'm not gonna just give away my virginity until i meet the person that i'll spend the rest of my life with. i feel bad though that she did it even though i told her not to.
2006-11-17 19:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by (Beautiful Disaster) 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes I was in college and recently dumped by the love of my life. I hooked up with this guy and he was very forcefull. I left him and never saw or heard from him since. I was in a vulnerable state. I just put it in the back of my mind and blamed the one who dumped me for putting me in that state of mind.
2006-11-17 20:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by angelica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋