2006-11-17 11:20:42 · 13 answers · asked by lilshawdy 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
it hurts but what can you do about it. good luck
2006-11-17 11:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by skb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowadays, there are many theories and many doubts about hymen. Although, we live in 21st century and in the civilized society, there are still many prejudices around us. Many of them describe having hymen torn or not like simple “black- white” thing- you are virgin or not. Modern science and developed Medicine teach us that things aren’t always only “black” or only “white”, which means that many things are individual and unique. The question is- If you are unique are you necessary normal and opposite? I am trying to descriptively explain yours and your Mother’s different perception of world. That is normal, but your hymen also is. You neither are cripple, or liar. I trust you. You should accept your vagina and your hymen as they are. First of all, physical condition of your hymen doesn’t indicate are you virgin or not. That issue depends on fact did you have a sex or not. That is simple. Most women have hymen, some of them don’t. You might be one of those who don’t have it at all and that shouldn’t necessary be anomaly. Gynecologist will give professional opinion about it; I give you everything I have about that issue. Some women tear their hymens during cycling, horse riding, gymnastics or masturbating and that they don’t even notice it, because they didn’t feel pain or discomfort or noticed bleeding. Some women have very elastic hymen, which hasn’t been torn when they use tampons or even when you have a sexual intercourse…You see- everybody is different. Don’t be worried or ashamed – that is way you are. Read your mum this article, tell her honestly how do you feel and hug her. Try to establish friendship with her and you might talk to gynecologist about this issue.
* I found this article and hope it helps. I lost mine at 14 but it was with someone I loved. And yes it can hurt but it depends on the person your having intercourse with too. If they are gentle its not too bad. Just don't rush into it. Make sure if your gonna take that step its with someone you can trust and love, and good luck with everything!*
2006-11-17 19:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by Angel V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little, it actually hurt me a lot more the second time then the first, positioning has a lot to do with it.
2006-11-17 19:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by strtat2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It didn't hurt for me. But my legs were sore the next day. You know the type of soreness you get from using muscles you don't normally use.
2006-11-17 19:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by SexyLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It didn't for me, but it varies for each woman. For some, it hurts so bad that they can't even continue. For others, it doesn't hurt at all. And for some, it's slightly uncomfortable.
2006-11-17 19:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, if you take your time, use lubercation of make sure that your wet, be easy and gentle, it won't hurt that bad, you will be sore after wards.
2006-11-17 19:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just make sure you are nice and wet...and hopefully your partner will be very gentle and slow. take your time. the first time might not be to enjoyable but it will get MUCH better!
2006-11-17 19:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by Fordgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes mentally and physically
2006-11-17 19:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Hiten 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does, but after a few mintues it will feel so great!
2006-11-17 19:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Loca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the first couple of times do, but if your partner is gentil not as much.
2006-11-17 19:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by Eastpack69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋