Guy friend problem...?

Question

Ok so ive known this guy for a long time and we're close...and for the past two years ive kinda suspected tht hes gay. Im totally cool w/ tht i just dunno wht to say when and if he tells me. i want to be supportive but i dont want to make it a big deal about it i just want to make him feel comfortable in telling me. i hope tht makes sense
---thanks

Answer 1

so you want him to tell you that he's gay kuz you've suspected it for a while already right? and if your suspicions are right you feel weird that you won't know how to react? don't say anything jsut say something cheesy like "no wonder you have great sense of fashion & style! " that will let him know that you like how he carries himself or you can also say cool- you can be my shopping buddy and that would break the ice for him to the comfort zone. No mater what happens- refrain from making funny faces because facial expressions say ALOT!

Answer 2

If he is still in the closet (that is, no one in his family knows), just thank him for confiding in you, and give him a hug.

What makes you think he is gay? He may not be, you know.

Answer 3

Be like OK , and so I knew it , and than make this Will and Grace version Speech, or just watch Will and Grace they can teach you alot about this issue.

Answer 4

Yes, it does. If you're so close, why can't you just come out and ask him??? If he is, he'd appreciate it. If not, so what? Make sure you tell him you love him too either way. godloveya both.

Answer 5

well its not a problem. (i m not gay)
ask him if he is gay. what do u have to loos? if he is not then tell him u heart roomers.
and if he tells u he is gay don't react. (say: so what i don't mind but r we still friends?)

Answer 6

dint make sense