I've met this guy who happens to be my classmate. After a week we hang out a lot together and we always had lot of fun. Then one day we just kissed. We talked about it then and we realised that we kinda liked each other so we agreed to make a try. Things didnt seemed to be working, we could really be romantic when we were together (physically) but he didnt seem to open himself much. Like, he just said he liked me once..but he was showing anything, its like i was the only one who was trying to work this thing out. So, after that I suggested that we should be just friends again like before, but he told me that he had this feeling that things was going to work and that he knew that he was not trying at all but I didnt answer him. After a long time of thinking I realised that my feelings for him made me want him back. i wrote him an email of what i really felt . he didnt reply and at school he didnt seemed to care as weel.So i got really mad and i stop talking to him since then.
2006-11-17 10:54:16 · 3 answers · asked by je t'aime 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and yes..i dont have feelings for him anymore..but i feel so depressed because im so regretful of what happened and by thinking that we could have possibily been really really good friends...i feel i split it up...i feel sad because i feel unconfortable at class...we dont even look at each other..and people start asking why...because we used to sit next to each other and joke all the time...
2006-11-17 10:56:04 · update #1
don't feel bad... it's ok. if he really wanted to work it out, he would've tried. don't blame urself..... he said himself he wasn't trying at all. it's possible that u answered him later than he was expecting, but love is fickle.. timing is really important.. and love can quickly turn sour when u don't cultivate it.
just try concentrating on school, studies, exercise, friends, family and everything else. make everything Positive, Healthy, and Happy in ur life, so u have a lot to offer to any guy...and u will know when someone is taking care of u the "right" way, not ignoring u... u know? :) ur not even saying u wouldn't take him back, ur just saying that he wasn't giving u any attention. that's a valid reason to be upset, and he needs to listen. if he doesn't do his part to make u feel Secure, then it's partly his fault too!
take some time out and ignore... be nice, but don't beg him or cry or anything.. life is too short to worry about "shoulda woulda coulda".... if he wants to, he will respond. good luck
2006-11-17 11:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are WAYYYY to young to be thinking of romance and "relationships", I can tell by the way you word our problem. Just let the guy "be". He can be a friend, you and kiss him now and then, keep it simple and easy-going or you won't have him around for long. Remember, guys mature slower than girls do..the only thing driving him is hormones, if you get my meaning! Relax! It's far too early to have "feelings" for someone. Just enjoy your youth and the moment! Godloveya.
2006-11-17 18:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart tells you to and follow it
2006-11-17 18:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by fachizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋