It's a friend that has been friends with me for 3 or 4 years so it makes me nervous. how would you do it? please help
2006-11-17 10:43:09 · 7 answers · asked by jj 2 in Sports ➔ Other - Sports
they became a model is now really showing and "It's all about them" they think i follow them around but they follow me
2006-11-17 10:51:33 · update #1
Be straight up and honest-and be prepared to answer why
2006-11-17 10:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really need more detail on why you made this decision, but I would just kinda shy away and be "busy", but sooner or later you'll have to face up to the persons question on why you have not been available for a friendship, just tell "them" you have been busy, thats its not personal, but you seem to be on a different path and sometimes "friendships" wear out, but you'll always remember the things you did together, and thank "them" for what they taught you, and brought to your life. People change, situations change, and so do aquaintances. Dont feel guilty, theres a reason for everything, thats why God brings certain people in to, and out of our lives. Its called CHANGE, and there are some necessary changes one has to make in ones life. Perhaps this person is not making a positive contribution to your life, you need to let these types go. Its NEVER easy, but if you have to let this person "go", do it and be done with it, but for heavens sake dont make a date and a plan to so this, that would be cruel, do it the next time you two get together in a gentle loving way, remember there is no reason to be nasty and hurtful, let them go in love.
2006-11-17 18:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by kimmy3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are hard to come by in this life, if the person hasn't done you any actual emotional or physical harm, it's difficult to understand why you want to eliminate someone who wishes friendship with you. Though, if you're dead set on ending your friendship, it's best to simply be direct and tell them that you don't wish any further contact for the truthful reasons.
If you're uncomfortable with them, simply tell them. "I'm uncomfortable being around you, I don't want to continue our friendship."
Be honest, be direct, save the both of you a great deal of unnecessary emotional quagmire.
2006-11-17 18:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by somewherein72 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless there is a serious reason why you don't want to be friends anymore, I would just gradually let the friendship die out. Don't call, make excuses when they ask you to do something, etc. Eventually they will get the picture.
2006-11-17 18:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Emily D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a friend is forever, so whatever this friend or you is going through, your friendship should be able to withstand. I'm sad, now.
2006-11-17 18:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont want to be friends anymore and if they want a explanation tell them why THE TRUTH
2006-11-17 18:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like they are NOT a friend but do it. You are not worthy of their friendship.
2006-11-17 18:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋