I am pregante help?

Question

9 months and i am hudge my mom noticed my wieght gain but she thinks its because i ate so much she doesn't know i am and i might give birth any day but she will freak if i tell her because i am young and should never have had sex iam in 9 th grade but then again if i just pop it out she will flip too what should i do

Answer 1

Confide in someone you know. For goodness sake do not dump the baby anywhere. Personally I would come clean with your parents. Yes they are gonna freak - but they will calm down eventually. Then get the baby adopted, its not the babys fault. It deserves a good future with parents who will love it. Besides you are just a kid yourself and you have much living to do yet before you get tied down with kids.

Answer 2

It's too late to get an abortion. I know a free pregnancy counselor you can call if you want, email me if you want her name/number. Maybe she can help you decide how and when to tell your mom.

Your life might be in jeopardy if you don't tell her. Something could go wrong in your labor, and if she doesn't know what's going on, she might do something that makes things worse. Yes, I'm trying to scare you into telling her, but what I say is true. This is an emergency. Her first concern is going to be for your health. You guys can fight later. Stop torturing yourself and tell her - you will be glad you did, when she is there to help and support you rather than you trying to birth the baby in some closet trying not to make any noise and being scared out of your mind.

p.s. I just looked at your other questions on your profile, about urgently wanting to come on to some guy at school and wondering if some new guy likes you. Assuming this is all true, I really hope that you will put those concerns aside and focus on this medical situation and stop wasting time.

Answer 3

Well I will asume this is a real question & tell you that you need to tell your mom now, so you can see a doctor & get some insurance before it puts your parents in the poor house. Also why would you not tell, by not getting proper prenantal care you have put your health & your babies in danger. Go tell your mom know, she will be mad at first , but she is a Mom & will be right there to hold your hand as you have the baby, you have to have this baby in the hospital, you could die having a baby at home not knowing what you are doing, not to mention the pain, go tot hte hospital, your mom can stand right next to you get a epidural & stop being so selfish you now need to think of your poor baby that has been neglected for 9 months! Good Luck , and please teel your mother if this is true you really will need her love help care & support!

Answer 4

This is something that young people fail to realize, It happen and everyone is going to have to accept it. You either keep it or you put it up for adoption. You should've told your mom earlier. Yes you wouldv'e gotten in trouble. There's nothing worse that could happen to you now. Don't be like those foolish girls who have baby's and dump them in the trash. You lose alot more by doing that then letting your family know about your situation. This happens you're not the only teenager who has been pregnant and there are probably some younger than you who have. Anyway its definitely time to tell her don't wait till you're in the hospital. There's going to be a lot of dissapointment but like I said it happend and its going to have to be accepted.

Answer 5

TELL HER RIGHT NOW! Do not wait, do not pass go, do not collect $200.

Your mom is your best friend and the only one who can help you out through this difficult time. If you dont know how to say it, just stand in front of her with tears in your eyes and lift your shirt. She may be mad, but she knows how you feel and will still love you. It is almost impossible to get a mom to hate her baby, no matter how old the baby is!

Do it now, before it is too late!

Answer 6

You should really tell your mom, she can help you. Sure she may be mad, but you are in no position to take care of a child. A big thing is you need a doctor who can deliver the baby so that everything goes smoothly. If you really feel that you can't go to your mom you should go to your dad or a teacher you trust, or a guidance counselor at school or someone. This isn't something you can do on your own.

Answer 7

Okay first of all I really dont know how you kept it this long, I would sit down and tell her, be like look mom I love you I am 9 months pregnant I have been hiding it from you, yes she will be angry at first any mother would if a secrete like that was kept from them... but she needs to know... do you plan on keeping the baby..? if not there are many women out there who cant have children and would love to adopt... good luck and keep me posted on how it goes..

Answer 8

WTF? Are you freakin' kidding me? What are you doing sleeping with someone (without protection) in the 9th grade?!

It was not wise of you not to tell you mother. I hope that you're not intending to raise this baby by yourself... Now that you've waited so long, you have no idea how your mother is going to react.

You need to tell her, and you need to tell her NOW. You don't need to be on the freakin' computer. You should be telling your mother that you're pregnant. OMG. Have you been getting regular medical care? If not, have you thought about the consequences? What if you have gestational diabetes? What if you have toxemia of pregnancy? There are SOOO many things that can go wrong... What if you had an STD when you got pregnant?

You mother needs to know, and you need to tell her, ASAP. It would be very difficult for me to be able to forgive my daughter if she kept something like that from me.

Answer 9

I was scared to tell my mom too. Not because of my age but because of his. He was 17 and I was 18. Anyway the way I got up the nerve to do it was while we were in the car and she couldn't stare at me. I just blurted out "Mom, I have to tell you something." That way I couldn't back out. After you get it out her reaction won't be as difficult as you think, even if she flips at least its out in the open and you don't have to live with the worry of it anymore.

Answer 10

Tell her!!!! ASAP!!! What's done is done.... I had a friend years ago when I was in high school. She kept the pregnancy from her parents. Well she popped and her DAD ended up delivering the baby, go figure. You need to tell her. She might come through for ya ;-)