How to tell the CAS about intention to get married.?

Question

My Fiancee is battling to get her two boys back from the CAS. We have known each other for a year, and intend to get married so we can be together as I live in the UK, and my Fiancee lives in Canada. We intend to approach the CAS about our relationship and intentions, because she has been told anyone who is to be around the kids needs to be approved, and background checks done etc., which I have no problem with but my Fiancee is worried it will cause problems and delays in getting them back. If anyone has any information that might help, it would be greatly appreciated. Kind Regards, Davie.

Answer 1

Cas in Canada lie.Group homes are privately run. These places get major federal$$$ per child. They answer to no one. If they can hold child for one year "voluntarily" Then they are wards, in until 18. I have heard of so much abuse of power it staggering. The only possible way for her to get children back is hire lawyer. In a second they stop all the Bull and back down. All kids I know of in care were bullied by CAS into voluntary custody for 3 months. Back ground checks is an excuse to track down anybody u have ever known and probe and spin things. Legal Aid covers lawyers for this situation.
CAS has no thought of giving kids back, marriage or no marriage. Most likely they will just start talking to everybody who has ever met you. They are free dismiss good things and exaggerate any bit of gossip from any anonymous source .