tigger question part 2 lets put this in perspective as a ex huband whom was cheated on why do women win?

Question

my ex got custody and can take my kids anywhere in the world if she can prove that they MAY have a better life
the currunt system is wired for the mother (so dads for justice have a point)

Answer 1

I don't know if you've figured this out yet but some women can be pretty damn selfish and self righteous.

perfect example being you're wife cheated on you then left you yet she gets the kids. Well there are plenty of arguments to say why she deserves them BUT what about the arguments that say why you deserve them?

I would also like to add that many women seem to assume that because a mans wife cheated on him and left him that must undoubtedly mean: he was a rotten man in some way shape or form. Its usually a no win situation for the man even if he was a top of the line husband and she was a dishonest, irresponsible ****.

That's how the cookie crumbles my friend Ive seen it enough times that the thought of it actually sickens me however we will always wear the title of the 'bad guy' no matter how many 'bad girls' take full advantage of some men and use that very belief to their demented advantage...

Answer 2

The law my friend is an *** (1). I don't know you (you could be a decent human or a scumbag) however as a normal person and taking your question as truth, i can judge your ex to be a self-serving coward who could not tell you she wanted to split up before sliding down another's pole. Her primary interest is her and her alone. She may love the kids, but not more than her. So unless you are an egotistical freak, we are back to my original point - the law is an ***(1). If i was looking to go on a male rant i would say the law is even more stupid, cos lets face it, women get paid less than men in nearly every profession anyways, so why do judges think they can mind themselves and the kids financially?

(1) the part of the body used for sitting. Known in the states as a f a n n y)

Answer 3

depart him. the actuality that he won't furnish you along with her call or digital mail tackle is a great tip that he would not intend to end issues along with her and that extra went on than he admits. ON good OF IT he's BLAMING YOU! I hate to assert it yet your husband is an entire jerk and you ought to discover somebody who's a first rate individual. i won't be in a position to even think of why you will evaluate forgiving and forgetting for somebody who isn't even taking accountability, telling the actuality, letting you be conscious of who she is, or doing something different than blaming you! Sweety, please do now not enable him make any further of a fool of you.

Answer 4

Well my ex used to hit me and it costs me 20 thou in legal fees for me to move them across the state where we can be with my now husband and have a better life....I don't think it's about win or loose just people who milk and play the system.

Answer 5

when my parents divorced i lived with my dad. so not all cases are the same! but unfortunately i didn't speak to my mother for 2 years after but now we trying to rebuild our relationship. so yes they do have a point! some dads can raise the kids too mine did!

Answer 6

babe it aint all women i know the system can work wrong. you are still entitled to a part in your kids lives make the most of that. dont be bitter in front of them and they will see who the better parent is as they grow up and learn. good luck babe it can be hard but it works both ways.x

Answer 7

because kids come from the womb of the woman for 9 months and drink her milk until it flows... that's connection. in the making of the baby, the only part of the father is to let his seed go out while enjoying it. thats just lust.

so mommies win.

Answer 8

lets hope that when your kids reach an age where they can understand that mummy cheated on daddy who knows they might want to be with you xxx

Answer 9

How about actually asking a question, instead of just complaining about things and putting your views across

Answer 10

i think the kids should choose the parent when they are old enough to