OK can anyone explain why a man would wear his wedding band for a few years after he marries, then take it off for a number of years (he has a professional job, in an office), and then start wearing it again all of a sudden?
Basically he stopped wearing his ring for a few years and just started wearing it again. There's no work related issue nor any weight related issue that would have prompted him to stop wearing it.
Any ideas?
2006-11-17 09:45:17 · 20 answers · asked by vegetable soup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sorry...wedding band. We're in the UK but I'm American and I slip up occasionally.
2006-11-17 09:46:10 · update #1
oh it's not my husband. he fears my wrath if he did that!
2006-11-17 09:53:01 · update #2
I do the same thing quite often. No I'm not trying to pick up girls! I have a small rash that builds up from sweat, or whatever. The only thing that gets rid of it is taking it off for a few weeks. Sometimes I refuse to take it off and believe me it will after awhile make me. Looks like the skin is dissolving! Hope this helps, cause the only other reason I can think for taking this thing off would be unacceptable!
2006-11-17 09:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Promise earrings are literally not a similar as engagement earrings. A promise ring is a hoop promising to stay authentic to one yet another. there continues to be no promise of marrying with a promise ring. An engagement ring is a hoop that symbolized that both human beings comply with get married and plan a wedding ceremony contained in the close to destiny
2016-11-25 01:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by apps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't wanna sound ugly but most men take off their wedding ring if there's someone else they don't want to know they are married. And if he put it back on without you telling him then maybe the person he might have held a interest in didn't think of him that way so he gave up and put it back on or the person found out he was married. And I'm speaking from my own experience. I hope that it was nothing like this.
2006-11-17 09:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the obvious thing that comes to mind is that he was having an affair during the time he didn't wear it but this is not necessarily the case. I sometimes have to remove all of my rings for periods of time because I suddenly started getting some kind of skin complaint where my fingers get really sore under my rings and the skin starts splitting - usually when my hands have been sweating. I have to remove my rings for short periods of time but it often takes me a while after the complaint clears up to get round to putting them back on again.
2006-11-17 09:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mum.of.twins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say men tend not to wear their band if they do manual/dirty jobs, but when the man works in an office ...?
Could it be that single attractive women were not noticing him?
For him to start wearing it again, could it be that he's overplayed his hand flirting with someone, and he's now trying to ward them off?
It could be something very simple, like for example, he's going for promotion, and to wear his wedding band indicates he's married, settled, stable and promotable?
Or it could be that he's just finished an affair (however brief it may have been), he's feeling guilty, and wants to recomit himself to married life?
Has his wife noticed anything different in his behaviour before, during and after this saga?
2006-11-17 11:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jamma354 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got complacent after he married, put on a few pounds and his finger got fat. After being nagged to go on a diet by his office chums he has shed some those extra pounds and his ring now fits. Alternatively it could be because of the affair he had with the office Secretary!!
2006-11-17 09:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he fancied someone in the office and didnt want them to know he was married. Cant see any other reason for him removing it in an office job! Hope this isn't your husband.
2006-11-17 09:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by mistickle17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he just doesnt like it, some men just dont like to wear rings, but it is definatly odd!I would definatly be concerned and try to talk to him about it the best way is to communicate! Good Luck
2006-11-17 09:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Free & Sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, sounds like a kinda midlife crisis thing to me. Maybe he liked to see if there were other options out there if he was made to seem like he was single again. But it sounds like he's came to his senses and chosen you in the end. Dont worry about it unless he does it again. Then its scissors to the suits time!
2006-11-17 09:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by ~Kitana~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it's the opposite meaning.
He does not like to wear rings but someone is making a play for him and this is his response...
2006-11-17 10:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋