my brother is hardly God damn obsessed in a certain sport here in our place and he never stop watchin a t v show w/c airs his favorite sport and he is going nuts!
2006-11-17 09:33:42 · 5 answers · asked by FaLLen_sIrEn 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
I think the "spell" you are looking for is called "reverse psychology". The more you let go of your reaction to his obsession, the less it will be one. Some ideas:
(0) Ask yourself why is this conflict happening?
Why are you sharing a place? Is this a sign that you need to get separate places? Who pays the rent? If you pay more, you make the rules. If he doesn't like it, he can leave. If you'd rather leave, why not? Could be advantages to having your own place.
(1) Does he normally go through an obsession, burn out, and go on to another? If this is his pattern, let him OD on it and get over it faster.
(2) Anytime he sits down to watch, invite people over to "enjoy" it with him, who he doesn't want to share it with. He will go somewhere instead.
(3) Is the enthusiasm a true interest? If so, does he have any other friends to share it with? Encourage him to take turns enjoying at friends' houses, at least 50-50, if not rotating the days of the week. That will reduce your turn to host it in your place.
Overall, sounds like he needs more of a social life. If he has nothing else to do, he is projecting all his emotional needs on this one joy he has discovered. Either let him have his joy, or ask friends of his to help him share it in other ways or other places.
As for you, what do you want and where would you rather be? if you can occupy your mind with more engaging things than his sports obsession, you won't notice or care as much where his mind is. What are your goals? What creative projects would you like to pursue? Think of your interests, and don't worry about his.
2006-11-17 10:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by emilynghiem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a spell i made myself and you can make one too(i sound so crazy right now)
By moon and sun i will away
the obseesion that i force at bay
and send it off to were you wish
by the dark and black abyys
and may it never take a turn
back to his/her life and make it burn
so i ask oh moon and sun
work your magic on the run
2006-11-18 07:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Askawitchcommunity.org and submit this question. There are a lot of people there know more about what you need than the people who answer questions here.
2006-11-17 17:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by the_ladykalliope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try unplugging the tv, or go to diagon alley or hogsmeade to get a potion.
2006-11-17 17:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by stitchfan85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.corruptedcauldron.com/cauldron/spells/obsession.html
I found this one online....
2006-11-17 17:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋