How many women out there are dissapointed in your husband's job? Why do you think they stay at that job and would you leave your husband if employment was the negative issue?
2006-11-17 09:25:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't hate his job but I hate the fact that he has to be away from me when he goes on deployments (he's in the Navy).
2006-11-17 09:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What does the wife being dissapointed in her husband's job have anything to do with him leaving that job...are you saying he should quit just because you don't like it? What kind of sense does that make...do you know how many husband's WON'T work (and wives, too). Be glad that he is trying to support his family. He could be sitting around the house drinking beer letting you bring home the bacon. I have been proud of every job my husband has ever had, even the ones that he didn't like. To me, it meant that he was providing for us, and that's really all that was important. The only thing I wouldn't "approve" of would be something that involved illegal activity. I wouldn't care if he worked at a strip club (which he has) as a garbage man, flipping burgers, etc. I would be proud and supportive, regardless. He has had jobs that I didn't like the hours, or that I didn't like the people he worked with, etc., but in NO way was I dissapointed in him or his job.
2006-11-17 10:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could start by saying that the load is getting too heavy for you to bare alone. There are more jobs out there besides driving a taxi cab. He can go to an unemployment office to get help in finding another job. You are feeling resentful that he's not contributing to the household and let him know exactly how you feel about it. When I was preg my husband got fired. He let his unemployment run completely out before even trying to look for work. I told him I had a baby to think about. I wasn't going to support both of them. He could either find work or a new place to live without me and his child. He had found something by the time the baby was 2 mths old!! He's been there ever since!
2016-03-28 23:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, i hated my husband's job. He used to work at Rent-A-Center. My advise, don't ever work there. Working till at least 9pm, weekends, sometimes even Holidays.
My husband hated his job, too so we were both kind of glad that ge got fired because his co-workers were trying to get him into trouble. They acted like they were in kindergarden, trying to get the others in trouble. Well they went too far and got my husband fired!!
I would have ever left him because of his employment issue. We tried working it out. We've only been married for about a year now and i don't think i'd ever think about leaving him because of that.
2006-11-17 09:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dislike my husband's job, but he loves it, and I'm not about to ask him to quit. He wouldn't ask me to quit doing what I love. I don't think employment is enough of a reason for a divorce, unless he's absolutely refusing to work. I didn't take mine to raise, and I'm sure he knows it - as long as he's trying, it's good. There's more to it than just the job, from the sound of it.
2006-11-17 09:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate my husband's job because he's gone all the time. But i respect the fact that he love's what he does and take's lots of pride in his work. I would never leave him though because of the job.
2006-11-17 12:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug_78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better be happy he has a job to go to. Have you read questions enough to see how lucky you are, it's his job and you leave someone because you don't like the job. I'd tell you hit the road sister cause this old boy don't gave a damn what you like.
2006-11-17 09:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I REALLY despise my husbands employer, not so much his job. He works for Nokia Mobile Phones. They have just about outsourced all of the jobs to Mexico. This task will be complete in the spring. His official layoff date is December 10 though. A SHOUT OUT TO NOKIA.....
YOU SUCK!!!!!!!
Thank you for letting me vent!!
2006-11-17 09:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by HSK's mama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a woman leaves a man because they job then f### them a job is job ok it is hard enough to get one these day to be pickie. So for you woman that want more money then you go get a JOB!!!!
I know there are men out there that won't work I married one but I got smart we are not married anymore. give it up woman need to stop bi###and get aJOB and if it where the man the one not working the he need to get off is a## and be a man and get a JOB
2006-11-17 09:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what his job is. I hate the job my hubby currently has, but I wouldn't leave him over it. However, if he worked at a strip club where women were stripping, and he refused to quit, I'd leave him over that.
2006-11-17 09:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not disappointed, but I do hate it. He is a cop so I always worry about him and it scares me sometimes when he isnt home on time. Id never leave anyone because I hated their job tho... thats pretty petty!
2006-11-17 09:27:12 · answer #11 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋