We have been together for 2 years. We just had a baby sept 20. But during the pregnancy he would go out, and turn of his cell phone so I couldn't call him. He would come home say he was sorry, that he didn't meen it he was just drunk and not thinking. Then the night I went into labour, he was out again after I asked him not too. I called the bar and said I was having bad contractions. He hung up the phone and said that I just wanted him to come home and was making it up. He got home at 2:30, my water broke at 3:00 ! I don't think I can ever forgive him for this. He says he sorry and he will regret that forever. but do I believe him? he has said this before. Can he truly love me if he has done all this, I would never hurt him or anyone in that way. please help!!
2006-11-17 09:13:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This guy doesn't care about your feelings at all because if he did he wouldn't be hurting you on purpose over and over again. How many times are you going to let him tell you the same old excuse over and over again??? All that he's going to do is go out do what he wants and then come home and make you have pity on him. You have to wake up sooner or later and put your foot down. Either that or you need to find yourself a better man sweetie. He should be at home with you and the baby, and he should have been there with you through your pregnancy. I know that had to hurt you very deeply inside to have gone through it alone. You have to dig deep inside your heart and ask yourself is any of this worth it??? I have the feeling that you don't think he loves you. You want to believe he does, and your hoping he does, but your heart is telling you he doesn't. A person can still love you no matter who they are and what they do. That does not mean that you need to stick around and be treated like dirt on the floor either. If your tired of this, make a change in your life starting right now.
2006-11-17 10:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, i can not give a yes or no answer to this question.
I think that you should think of some of these questions in order to answer you question
1. has he changed, or showed an effort of changing since that labor thing happened.
2. How often do you guys get in fights.
3. How often do you think of leaving him
4. Does he say that he loves you, or shows any signs
He may have just been streesed out, having a new baby is stressing. Not saying what he did to you was right. He may love you, but he may love himself more.
2006-11-17 09:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he love's you if he dosent he can say he dosent but mabye your giving him a hard time do you always call him and ask him were are you and what are you doing because ghys dont like those questions a lot mabye thats why he turns of his mobile you should losen him up a lil let him be free a little bit if your always asking him questions
i wish you good luck with him
2006-11-17 09:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by red devil mike 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe just maybe you should have found out if he really loves you before you let him in your bed.
2006-11-17 09:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be extremely selfish. You have to make a decision is he worth it or is your happiness worth it??? I would go with your happiness.
2006-11-17 11:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a b@stard.
Leave him now before he causes you more pain.
2006-11-17 09:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sheriff Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him, if he really loved you then he wouldn't of left you when you were pregnant, he has alot of growing up to do and isn't ready to to do it yet....
2006-11-17 09:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him.
2006-11-17 09:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋