well I have a close friend and theres this guy I like. One day a bunch of us went to the movies and we were suppose to all go eat together, but i couldn't go eat with them. Then the next day we came to school my close friend and the guy i like seem to be flirting around a lot. Also when we went to a party they seem to have danced the whole night together. Now everytime his name comes up everyone stays quite especially my close friend and everyone starts looking at each other as if something happen between this close friend of mine and the guy i like, and the fact that my close friend keeps flirting with him and kissing him on the cheeks and hugging him while knowing that i have a thing for me just irritates me.How do i find out the thruth without looking like someone who doesn't trust her friend?
2006-11-17 09:02:44 · 12 answers · asked by watever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She obviously already dissed you. What you already know is enough to come to that conclusion. From now on, do not regard her as close of a friend as you had thought or hoped. Try talking and hanging with some other people, than just this group. Also, look around for some other young hotties to set your eyes and energy on. Give this friendship some space. If it is a truly a good friendship it will still be there. But, don't ask. Let it be. Do your own thing for a little bit. I would not ask her anything because she knows your feelings for him. If she needs to share with you something in regards with them then that is her job to come to you. She needs to be responsible for getting that out on the table with you. Just be like whatever. If she cares about you and is close as you say, she will know to say something to you.
2006-11-17 09:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Buckey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you need to do is confront her without accusing her of anything. ASK her what kind of relationship they have and TELL her how you feel, every time you see them or hear about them together. TELL her that you don't feel comfrotable with how they acting together. If she's says they're just friends...relax. But keep a eye on her and look for signs because she could be LYING. If she's a true friend, she would consider your feelings and wouldn't let a guy come between you. DON'T get upset or start overreactiong or act like she betrayed you...yet. When talking to your best friend, LISTEN first and ACT later.
2006-11-17 09:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by mzlin08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I this guy is close, you're able to get him on my own and ask him head to head. clarify that he's sending mixed messages and you're ask your self the place you stand. If he's your buddy you're able to be comfortable talking and much extra if there is relationship ability then that's considered needed to communicate. He ought to a million) have met yet another lady, 2) gotten demanding that it would decrease to rubble your friendship 3) found out he grew to become into getting to close and would not prefer a relationship 4) desperate that he mandatory to take a little time and think of it over to be sure what he needs, yet in any of those cases the only thank you to renowned for specific and for him to renowned that he's perplexing you is to communicate to him, head to head, on my own someplace.
2016-10-22 06:40:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well does your close friend know that you like this guy? If not, than you are the only one who knows and it looks like you lost out on him. You should ask your close friend what is up with them and go from there. If they are just friends, you better make your move quick.
2006-11-17 09:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by slim4evr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the truth is you dont trust your friend or you wouldnt be supecting her. The only thing you can do is ask her if there is something going on between the two of them and then decide what you want to do next based on her answer.
2006-11-17 09:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
here is the thing, girls can be down right rotten, when it comes to guys. sure you may like this guy but he may not feel the same about you. it sounds to me that they like each other but the reason everyone gets quiet is because they don't want to hurt your feelings. move on girl. so what if she flirts with him and he flirts with her. find someone that's going to like you back.
2006-11-17 09:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask her does she know how you feel about the guy you like, approach her with why do you flirt with him if you know how i feel about him?....if she doesn't seem to care then she is really not your close friend. Remember friends are more important then guys.Friends last forever
2006-11-17 09:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it sounds like you are jealous. You were not dating him at the time of the movie so he's free to date and see who ever he wants. Sorry that it your bummed about it, but that is life. You Snooze, you lose...
2006-11-17 09:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you just like him and you have not made a move than i am sorry to say that he is free game!! and why are you out of the loop because you dont knwo the details of what has happend with them!! i thought you said these women were your friends!!
2006-11-17 09:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First does ur close friend knows you like this guy? If ur friend knows what u can do is to just let ur friend be happy. what friends are for. coz something like this happened to me and my friend. she told me that she really like this guy, but she didn't know the keeps calling me and ask me out. but before she told me, that guy came my bf and I decided to brake up with him coz of my friend. so that she can go out with him. but he only cheated with her.
2006-11-17 09:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by winter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋