I am thinking about him all the time even though he treated me bad when i told him to break up. My ex is not as exciting as he used to be.I am miserable and make other people around me miserable too.Please help me...
2006-11-17 09:00:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The grass sure is always greener on the other side, isn't it? You left boyfriend number 2 because you were thinking back to boyfriend number 1 and wanting to to back with him. Now you are with him and you are thinking back to number 2 and wanting to be with him. Do we see a pattern? Don't judge him (number 2) by how he treated you when you broke up with him for another guy! Even the best guy would be slightly peeved and act out a little. Instead of constantly thinking about what guy you want to be with, think of who you want to be. Maybe this misery is your heart's way of telling you that neither one is right for you. If you really don't feel that's the case, then realize that you decided to be with number one for a number of reasons and remind yourself of those reasons. Don't keep going back and forth, that gets really old for everyone involved really fast.
Basically, my advice is to get away from both of them. It will be hard not to think of the good things and miss them both, but you can do it. Make a list of the bad things about each one! That should deter you!
Good luck!
2006-11-17 09:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situation. Mostly its ok and comfortable. I even get some sex once in awhile. There is somebody I think about most of the time and what might have happened. Maybe I find out sometime, maybe not. Maybe better not to even know what it would have been. I can imagine it any way I want to then. I'm not ruling anything out.
2006-11-17 09:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He became only pissed off that's all and now that u have been with somebody else,u experience like u have been cheating.never take an ex back because of the fact u will in all threat experience the comparable way u did be4.whoever u experience greater com4table with is the a million 4 u.
2016-10-15 16:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by mickelson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to No 3!
2006-11-17 09:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with u about the whole not trusting your ex, but if this guy is really make u feel nostalgic then he must be one great guy!!!! Try to get him back!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-17 09:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sk8ergirl#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so then do something about it. I mean does he have you hand cuffed or is he forcing you to be there or something. Move out just as you moved back in. simple make a choice. God bless******************
2006-11-17 09:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes love hurts u have to go with the persons that makes you feel the happest, he will forgive u someday but it will take time.
2006-11-17 09:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop whining over drama that YOU created!! Make yourself happy!
2006-11-17 09:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋