i am a black African gal and there's this Hispanic guy in my class who came to class late one day.We were reading from books given to us by our teaher before he came in to class,i offered to let him look through mine since i was the only one near to him.After about 10-15mins he was given one to use.My concern is that he hasn't spoken to me since then and he always sits at the far corner of the class away from me.I am the first to be in class everyday,whenever he comes to meet me,he doesn't say Hi or anything.I haven't being mean to anybody in the class but i can sense a big tension between us.he asked me about an assignment recently and i could feel that he had a tough time asking.Is it that he's scared of me or he hates me?.i do need opinions about his attitude because i would want someone i have a grudge with to be scared of me and not someone i have nothing against besides i'm not holding a grudge against anybody..I will treat any opinion as an honest judgement..
2006-11-17 08:40:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
In fact,i am the only person he treats this way.I am the only true African in the class.I sometimes think becuz i am a foreigner..
2006-11-17 09:03:03 · update #1
you seem to spend a lot of time noticing him. does he talk to anyone else? or is it just you he treats this way? it could be that he just doesnt know how to socialize, or it might be that he is attracted to you, then again, he might have taken a strong dislike to you but that is doubtful, he wouldnt have asked you for help in his assignment if he had....
why dont you just ask him, there is no need to be aggressive about it, just matter of fact
2006-11-17 08:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, are you kidding??? I almost died when I read your question. Seriously, I don't think I can even go to school tomorrow because of it. What will I tell my parents? Gawd! I wish you hadn't said that! There, now, is exaggeration good or bad?
2016-05-21 23:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who really knows what is going through his head.. but the sudden change in his behaviour seems strange. The first thing that came to mind was maybe he might like you a little but is shy.. you offering to share, being kind.. to put it bluntly sometimes that is attractive to people. But also who knows what goes on outside the classroom.
Just continue to be you as that is all you can do. I mean if it really worries you, you can approach and ask, but I'd be inclined to just let things run their course..
Dont stress just go about things as you normally do..
2006-11-17 08:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by *JC* 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should stop your obsession at minding him because he thought that you're minding him too much and you make him annoyed sometimes my advice is stop being nice at him and don't answer him back when he is talking to you or the easy way just tell him ''whats wrong why are you not talking to me'' or just mind him forever you choose its your life.
2006-11-17 09:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by DaRkAngeL XIII 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly I don't think I would give this person anymore of my time thinking about his motives.
He is what he is.....let it go.
2006-11-17 08:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋