Hi, I was just wondering how can u tell if you;re husband is cheating?

Question

My husband has been very weird latly and i dont no y i think he is cheating!

Answer 1

1. The most common warning is when a partner tells you something is amiss and you don't believe it. He or she may say, 'This marriage isn't working,' or 'I am not happy.'
2. Sudden change -- or interest -- in appearance.
3. If your partner says, 'You need to see a psychiatrist,' 'You need help,' 'Get a job,' 'Lose weight,' or 'Go to the gym,' and is constantly critical, it's all part of the same theme -- which is that there is something wrong with you. Unconsciously, they are setting it up to say their partner was nuts and wouldn't even go for help. Another tip-off is when he or she starts picking fights about something you are good at, so you fight back and then he or she calls you argumentative.
4. Gives you guilt gifts.
5. If you get the cold shoulder at your spouse's company holiday party where everyone used to be friendly, it's a sign that his colleagues either know about the affair and figure you are on the way out, so why be nice? Or your partner has been making critical comments about you so they think you are no good.
6. When a partner is sneaking around a bit, it's a sign. Maybe he or she takes secret cell phone calls on the porch instead of using the phone by the bed, or maybe he is out on weeknights whereas he used to be home watching television. If you see that a person is not around that much and is gone on different nights, something may be up.
7. Sometimes people with a background of these types of things may be more likely to repeat them. There are exceptions and people can change patterns in their life, but if we are talking about red flags, history is a red flag.

Answer 2

Signs of Spousal infidelity

Some statistics say that 85% of women who feel their lover is cheating are correct. If you have suspicions, consider some of the following and be as impartial as possible
Have you noticed a
Sudden increase in time away from home
Decreased sexual interest with you
Husband is often distracted and day dreaming
Husband is often “unavailable” while at work
Husband attends new functions outside of work and wants to go without you
Cell phone calls from you are not returned in timely fashion
Husband leaves house or goes to other rooms to talk on the telephone
Cheating spouse uses computer alone and secretly
Cheating spouse asks about your schedule more often than usual
Mileage on car is high yet he reports only short distance errands
Clothes smell of perfume or cologne
Husband gets his laundry done independently
Husband has more cash on hand without accountability
Cell phone bills contain calls with long duration
Husband now has a phone card but never used one before
Husband has unexplained receipts in wallet or purse
Husband has suspicious phone voice-mail messages
Husband has suspicious cell phone numbers stored or dialed
Internet web browser history list (this is a record of web sites visited) contains unusual sites
Husband begins to use new or free e-mail account
Husband is suddenly deleting e-mail messages
You need to observe do not meanwhile ask to many question since it is for him a warning sign.

Answer 3

I don't think anybody can exactly tell when their husbands are cheating. But I think you as the wife always know your husband the best because you eat with them, sleep with them, get intimate with them...you get the whole picture. Since you know him better than anyone else out there, just be aware of the changes. But don't conclude that he's cheating until you catch him red handed. He can possibly be stress from work or something else and just giving you the impression like he's cheating. You do know him best. If you really-truly suspect cheating...I would look into it. Good luck hun!

Answer 4

the cheating with my husband began with him picking a fight and threatening my son, knowing that is the only way i would ever even react. he began taking more showers, one time infact i did get a wift of a smell on him but i was still in denial. they pick on u so u will leave or make them leave so they will feel justified when it comes out they have someone else. do u have a nagging sick upset feelingthat there is something wrong but just can't put your finger on it. do they put everyone first in their life but u. does he go into another room to talk on the phone, or did he suddenly get a cell phone as mind did, back when no one had a cell phone. are they suddenly silent like the cat's got their tounge, do they seem uninterested in u or anything u are talking about, and often times cut u off in conversation or act as if u are booring them to death.have u gone out of town and come home and found strange clothing in your house, does he claim he has to work late, out of town that might require he stay alnight, but if his boss calls don't tell him he is working on the side. the best way is just to follow them or have them followed so u can catch them, and move on and get away from them. i certinly was in denial, guess i did just fall off a turnip truck.

Answer 5

NO NO NO NO NO a father and a daughter do NOT make a good couple!!! that is your blood that is someone you helped gve birth too. WTF is wrong with you people. Tell the mother before the anniversary why tell her after she had a great day to just turn around and say " your husband is cheating on you with your daughter BTW" they both need LOTS of help and need to stay away from each other. Tell the mother SOON !!!!

Answer 6

If by weird you mean he is smiling a lot more then he use to, he probably is cheating. But is it cheating if what he has to give is not totally being used?

Answer 7

It depends on what you mean by weird. Most guys act weird from time to time. So do us women. I think its hard to say if he is cheating or not unless you have found earrings, lipstick, or his clothes smell like perfume.

Answer 8

Trust your instincts on this one. What leads you to believe he's cheating, or is it just a hunch? Watch out for the fact he hides his mobile phone from you; does he get calls you are suspicious about? Is he coming home late? Watch out for hairs on his clothes that are not his or yours. Watch out for changes in mood.
14 years ago, I thought my then boyfriend was cheating. I had nothing to go on, except he had cheered up considerably. He was a moody kind of guy, given to tantrums, but almost overnight he became happy and obliging. That was all. Once, I found hair, long and black(mine is blonde) on his sweater. I asked him about it, he said he didn't know anything about it, I finally challenged him directly; he denied and denied, making a joke out of it, but I just knew.
When he finally left, I found a series of love letters from HER. She had posted them to his work address; she appeared not to know of my existence, or the fact he had a baby son. He left them wher he knew I'd find them. The Rat.
Trust your instincts. They are probably spot on.

Answer 9

You can usually tell if he isnt interested in intimate relations with you. If that is the case he is probably "getting" if somewhere else. But if you really want to know, hire a PI.

Answer 10

His routine has drastic changes. He makes excusses for mood swings. Hides things such as his wallet or briefcase , cell phone ect... makes excusses to get out of the house more often.