My roommate had a test the next day and i was extremely exhausted from all my classes and school work so i decided to take a nap. I helped him a little by talking to him how to do the problem from my bed but it didn't really help him. We haven't talked ever since and i guess he is mad because i didn't take the effort to get out of my bed and explain the problem because i was extremely tired. My roommate and i have been friends through highschool and we have gotten in several fights. We got in a fight at the end of junior year and we didn't talk for half a year then we started talking in the middle of senior year. Throughout all the fights that we have had, i was always the first one to speak or apologize and this time i don't want to do it anymore. My roommate is stubborn and he holds his anger inside of him until i speak to him about it. He will always gossip about his problems with other people and he has extremely sensitive feelings. Should we just stay silent and see what happens?
2006-11-17 08:28:51 · 8 answers · asked by larryman210 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
help him. apologize to your roommate.
2006-11-17 08:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt apologize... First off. IT IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM THAT HE CANT FIGURE THIS STUFF OUT.... If your at school, then surely there is a learning center or a place where he can go and get help and NOT always have to rely on you. YOU NEED TO TAKE CARE OF YOU FIRST AND FOREMOST!!! YOUR GRADES matter!!! In the end, when you two go off and start careers, YOUR GRADES will decide what kind of job you get, or if you get into grad school, or for whatever you decide to do... NOT HIS GRADES!! So DONT apologize, but maybe tell him that. Tell him that you need to make sure you are taken care of first, and that if you have time after all that, then you can help, cause that is what friends are for, but a real friend will DEF understand that your not his *****!
2006-11-17 16:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he shouldn't depend on you whenever there is trouble, he's got to understand that you have a life too. i suggest that you stop apologizing to him. if he's got problems, he will see a shrink. i mean, it's not your fault he isn't good at math. it was his own fault that he failed, and he's just using you so he can have something to blame it on, if i were you i would be tried of being the outlet to his anger. don't apologize because you did nothing wrong. you did what you could then. also, he needs to learn to be independent.
2006-11-17 16:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by guess2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it obvious that he maybe angry because you didn't help him so just apologize to him and explain that you where extremely exhausted. good luck. (",)
2006-11-17 16:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by sexymanta 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't talk to him. he will come around and talk to you. give him time
2006-11-17 17:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got something that will make him happy again....!
2006-11-17 16:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to stop being a pansy
2006-11-17 16:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by drizzttownz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why dont you kiss and make up?
2006-11-17 16:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋