We've been really close for 6 years now, and I tell him everything. I would do anything for him, but lately I've been think about him and of him like I never have before. I want to see him more, and spend more one on one time with him. When we're just talking in a group of friends and he goes to talk to some other group of his friends...I get kind of mad. I saw a girl I know he likes wearing his sweatshirt, and I got rather jealous. I'm seeing him less than I use to, and it's really making me sad. I tried talking to my best (girl) friends and they said it was only a matter of time since we were so close. But, if that's so, and if I really AM falling in love with him...how do I know if his "time" has come too? Plus, how do I deal with it? Because I can't be with him right now, I couldn't stand to lose him if things didn't work out.
2006-11-17 08:24:16 · 5 answers · asked by XxSouthern CutiexX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there's one thing that you have to ask yourself ,,is the friendship more important than how i feel? what would i do if i started something and he didn't respond as i'd like him to..would he still want to be friends? could you live without him at all or with him only as a friend?.....i was in that situation once..i asked myself all these questions and took that chance anyways,,,,it turned out great and we're the bestest of the best friends.....it might not turn out so good for you.....think about it....
2006-11-17 08:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by ggmsixer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't stand to lose him if things don't work out? Well I hate to say this but then don't go there. I mean I have fell for some of my best friends and we have tried going out and most of the time it doens't workout. Now with my friends we can be "friends with benefits" and it all works out ok. You just have to talk to him as scarey as it may seem and see where he stands. Tell him that you don't want it to change anything between you.
2006-11-17 08:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by Angie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about how you feel. Have you talked to him? He isnt going to know about your falling in love with him until you say something. Tell him youve been having feelings for him and wonder if he feels the same. Maybe he is maybe he isnt. If things happen between you two keep the lines of communication open. I know its hard but he still is going to see you as someone he can talk to. Dont let that go to waste it might ruin the relationship. That is why me and my husband have been together so long. we started as friends and now weve been together for 3 years.
2006-11-17 08:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why cant you be with him right now?do you have a boy friend at the moment--well it seems u dont like him so leave him and go 4 yur friend---or does he have a grlfriend--what makes her better than you i say u should start by flirting and see how he responds...he wont end yur relationship because of a little flirting
who knows it might ignite a spark and hell fall in love--maybe he is in love w/ u...
make a move girl
2006-11-17 08:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry
maybe the girl he likes knows and he asked her out
all u could do to deal with it is to talk to him about ur feelings if he doesn't understand, he's not a real friend that can stik with u
good luck
2006-11-17 08:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋