This girl got herself pregnant, how do I avoid child support?

Question

I don't want to give her anything. Can I get a new social security number and move out of state to spite her? This is entrapment.

Answer 1

She didn't "get herself pregnant". I'm sure you helped some.

Answer 2

First of all how does a girl get herself pregnant? You got her pregnant you need to step up to the plate and be a father. We all know where babies come from. You should pay your child support and be the best daddy you can be. Just wait until the baby is born I bet you will change your mind and love that baby like a father should. Just a little helpful advise next time rubber up if you do not want to have a child most girls do not take the pill like they should or they will lie and say they are on the pill because they think this will keep you in their life.

Answer 3

If it is your kid, she didn't get herself pregnant, you and she did it together. Now, it may not have been in your plans, so you ought to have used a rubber. You didn't??? Why not??? Did she trick you by telling you she was on the pill??? Oh, well.

Can you move? Yup. Can she come after you?? Yup. Can she get child support? If DNA tests prove it is your, Yup, again. Does she need you for DNA... not really -- she can use a one of your relatives to prove it..... CAn you get a new social security number??? Probably not.

What should you do? If she is still in first trimester, I'd do my goddamn best to talk her into an abortion, for her own sake..... guys don't wish to raise other guy's kids, so she is going to be a single mom a longggg time. If she opts for adoption, those adopting couples will promise her anything-----"you can be the baby's other mom, you can visit any time..yadyyadayada..." Yea, sure..... As soon as they have the kid, they disappear, like immediately... Adoption is harder to swallow than a saline abortion.... (She's not killing a child, the stuff is just a clump of cells, a parasite until it is viable on its own.... only in the US and catholic countries is abortion a problem -- the rest of the world sees it differently, but the christian right fills us all full of guild.... I'd rather be a wanted child, than live with a mom who tricked a dad into producing me.... god what an aweful thing to live with....)

Helpful??

Answer 4

First, obviosly, get tested to make sure it is your child.

The only thing you can do would be illegal and that would be to get a new social security number. You could always leave the country but you would always be in the system. You're pretty much going to have to take on the roll unless you want to risk prison time.

I think the best thing you could do is be a part of this childs life and take responsibility for your own actions. Don't bring the spite you have about this woman onto this innocent child.

Answer 5

Well, technically NO its not entrapment if it is indeed YOUR child. What girl are you talking about, your girlfriend, your wife, your daughter? It must not be just some random girl or else you wouldn't be here writing this question. And honey, it takes TWO to tango, so if the two of you have been dancing the dance, then you need to man up and do what is right instead of wussing out. If you are man enough to pull down your pants, you are man enough to be RESPONSIBLE for anything that happens, including another human being's life.

On the other hand....if it is your girlfriend or wife....the only way to prove it is not yours is to wait until the baby is born and have a DNA test run. That is the only test that is 99% accurate. So either way you are SOL. Hope you make better decisions, but what's more is I hope you do what is right. We are talking about a HUMAN life here.

Answer 6

You are the same rat fink that posted this several days ago:


Are there any sites to help a man cheat on his girlfriend?
I'd like some professional advice. I have some other women lined up I'd like to frequent, but I don't want to lose old reliable, you know what I mean?

I need to figure out how to change my number for caller ID and stuff this way I can say I'm at work when I'm really calling from the cell phone. My current girlfriend has some hang ups like making me use condoms (I have an STD but usually take medicine) and complains about my drinking and porn. I need to get out once in a while for a good time.

Answer 7

Sorry, but you play, you pay. She cannot get pregnant on her own...the female species only provides the egg, not the batter.

Ask for a paternity test, which, if she wants child support she will agree to. IF you are not the father, you are off the hook. If you refuse, she can take you to court to demand a test. If this is not settled by the time the baby is born, she can still name you as father on the birth certificate, which will make you responsible. If you are the father, she can sue you for support, which you must pay until such time that one of two things happen:

A. She marries someone else and her husband wants to adopt the child, and then you sign away all parental rights to the child.

or

B. The child turns 18.

Take your pick.

Answer 8

Well you made a mistake men normally only make once, I made the same mistake, BUT I payed my bills, and I formed a very good relationship with my son, he even lived with me for 10 years and my son taught me a love I didn't know I had in me. Hopefully you both can look at this in a adult way and never use the child against each other. If your going to pay, make sure your part of the babies life, it will end up good. But make sure the child is yours right from the beginning and that cost is on you, check blood types first, that's the cheap way, then you will have to go to DNA testing. But if the child is yours, you really have to block out of your head the thinking of the child's mother just wants money, that does not matter, That child just might end up changing your life for the better. Good Luck

Answer 9

You know I've only ever heard one story about a woman who got pregnant with out help from a man. For some reason I don't think this is the case.

You have a responsibility to your child,(do get a DNA test just to be sure) and with that comes the paying of child support. If you were willing to have sex, it is one of those possibilities that she could end up pregnant. You could have worn a condom, and she could have been on a hormonal birth control. OR you could have abstained from sex.

Be a man and face the facts.

Answer 10

Got herself pregnant? She just miraculously got pregnant? You had no part of it? Were you using protection? Takes two, my friend. If she has a baby, then it is just as much your responsibility. I'm a single dad of two. My girfriend told me she couldn't get pregnant because she had cysts on her ovaries so, we didn't use any protection. Well, surprise, surprise! Along came my daughter. I stepped up to the plate and got custody of her. It has been the best and the hardest thing I have ever done. I wouldn't change things if I could. Don't you dare skip out on that child! You'll regret it for the rest of your life. Not to mention all the pain that kid will go through knowing his/her daddy left town so he didn't have to support him/her. How can you be like that?

Answer 11

The only way she can get child support is if you signed the birth certificate, and in some states, there has to be a paternity test proving it also. Get a paternity test even if you deny the child completely- you'd be surprised. (I watch a lot of Maury)
Of course the typical man feels he's being trapped- and that's normal to feel that way
But think about it-
If it really is your child, that's your blood. Don't you want to be there for that child? I grew up never knowing who my father is cuz my mom's a fri**in wh*re
Don't be a deadbeat, be a real man. Every child deserves a father. Find out the truth
Good luck to ya :}