I am 21 years old and live in southern cali. Iwork hard as a contruction worker and comes home to nothing at home. No dinner, dirty everything and my wife jsut sits down and watches television. I must have the worst luck in my life becuase today i stubbed my toe on rebar, got into an accident and didn't have enough money for lunch. Then i get home i get out of my truck enter the house and hear loud music comming upstairs from my room. I go up there and the door is slightly jammed. I hear voices and the children are no where to be found. I opened the dorry and my wife was sitting on a guy while sucking another guy. My heart fell into a state of suspension and my eyes and mind didn't agree on what was going on. The sad thing is even though she saw me she kept going. i felt like shooting them but my body wouldn't move. What would u have done?
P.s i've already asked this question i just posted it in the wrong section so if you have answered it please don't answer again thanks
2006-11-17 08:09:03 · 15 answers · asked by bboyballer112 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
um...find someone that treats you with a little respect! i am also 21 and my husband is 26. we have been married for a few months, but living together for almost 3 years now and have a 1 year old son and another son due in Dec. i am not even going to say that i am the best wife in the world. i hate cooking and cleaning, but i try to do it for my husband who also works very hard at his job (also in construction). cheating is unforgivable though. find someone that will respect you and your relationship, someone that is actually glad to see you when you walk through the front door at night and someone that will have a decent meal on the table at least a few nights a week. good luck
2006-11-17 08:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What would I do? I would not have let the relationship deteriorate to this point and if I had and walked in on this situation I would have found the children - left - and not returned. May I suggest that you move with the children from Southern California to Dallas or Houston? I most sincerely wish you the best of luck - this is a wretched situation and no simple internet advice is going to mend a broken heart and shattered trust.
2006-11-17 16:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by john e russo md facm faafp 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you know the guys she was busy doin' on the bed that you worked hard to pay for? You should have gotten their number plates so then you can have them summoned for your long, bitter divorce. Your wife will get half of everything and likely custody of the children. Tell your lawyer to argue that you don't want your children to be brought up in an environment where your now ex wife brings two men into her home and has sex with both of them while the kids are unsupervised. If you win custody then you can put them in day care with the alimony she pays you.
2006-11-17 20:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, aside from havign an urge to remove them all from earth to hell, I'd either pack up my stuff and the kids and get out of there or just tell her friends they can take her and keep her. Probably with kids involved the latter is the better idea since it is less trauma for the kids than being uprooted form their home. and the minute she is out the door, call a lawyer and a locksmith.
2006-11-17 16:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
actually, if I'm on your shoes, my initial reaction is to get a gun and kill them both!But what will happen, it will only worsen the problem, I could have ended in jail if I do that. Maybe I should just shout at them and tell them to get out of my house and tell my wife not to comeback again or never ever appear on my face again. Then I'll secure my children to make sure my wife will not get anyone of them...
2006-11-17 16:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by charm 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, i ran into a guy on the street who did shoot his cheating spouse of the guy, either way he got shot in the incident as well, then went to prison for some time.
probably not a good idea to shoot them, unless you don't mind some years in the joint.
if i were you i would leave her and move on, relieve yourself from this lazy no good woman, just keep relations to keep the kids sane.
good luck, tomorrow will be better, couldn't get any worse.
2006-11-17 16:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Chrispy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its as simple as this, your wife is obviously just taking advantage of the kind of guy you are. I say grab the kids and leave, you obviously deserve much better than that. Also if you ever see those guys again make sure you punch them in the mouth and make it count!!!
2006-11-17 16:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by ClaytDogg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wold totally just go off. I would yell and cuss her, and the guys aout. How could that b**** do something like that. And if you guys have kids....... Get a divorce, take the kids. You must have some badd luck.
2006-11-17 16:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just get a divorce so u fix your life again...u r 21 so u have the future infront of you.take the kids and leave the wife
2006-11-17 16:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by -- 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sir, i would think highly about what you do before you do it, because you have children. I personally would get ahold of a counsler or even an attorney.
2006-11-17 16:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by paul_wilkie2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋