My fiance?
I had a argument on my dress with my fiance? He told me i still have 45 days to think about it. because our wedding date is set. And he is not forcing me to marry me. I am the one who did it. I am so hurt what should i do, I was so hurt why did he say all that in small argument? then he called me 3, 4 times and i didnt answer my phone, should i call him back i miss him now.
2006-11-17 08:04:46 · 13 answers · asked by ALMAS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are getting married you should not close communication with him. Big mistake!
You have to talk things over.
If you fight about little things like this and not work them out, your marriage will never work.
2006-11-17 08:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by syznotch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had a SERIOUS argument about a dress, and you think HE has a problem? Wow. Neither of you is ready for marriage. Don't cancel it, just delay it. You will probably make each other nuts over the next 60 to 90 days. This will save the expense of a divorce later.
There are SOO many things to argue about after you are married, money, sex, toothpaste, dinner, in-laws, cleaning toilets, washing clothes, earning money, paying rent, who used all the cellular minutes! You guys don't have a chance if you can get so pissed off over a stupid dress.
2006-11-17 16:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by Monica M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is stressful before the wedding & I think you caught him on a bad day. And as you said it was such a small thing and perhaps that is why he go upset and said something he did not mean. You should pick up the calls because you need to communicate; you cannot ignore him once you tie the knot. You should call him back and talk gently and be understanding.
2006-11-17 16:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by doug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, call him. But, seriously it seems to me that you guys still have some issues. I would postpone the wedding until you are more sure that he is the perfect guy for you. You need not rush into marriage unless both of you are absolutely positive that your different personalities will not cause you to have a major crisis later on. Use your imagination and your common sense. Good luck.
2006-11-17 16:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart... relax!
I know how important the details may seam right now... But you are only going to wear that dress for a few hours... After the wedding... you'll probably leave in a pile..stains and all.
Take a deep breath, focus on loving each other...faults and all
2006-11-17 16:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by Friend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let something small that can easily be fixed come between you and your future husband. I mean, is it worth it? Just talk it out. Ignoring his phone calls won't help or fix the problem. Call him, or at least take his calls to see what he has to say. Good luck and congratulations!
2006-11-17 16:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Small fights now will lead to big fights later. Leave him and tell him to go to the wedding alone. You will find someone who will love you and let you make your own mind up.
2006-11-17 16:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by augie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't quite understand? You had an argument about your wedding dress? Add details.
2006-11-17 16:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by Heather M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not the road to take on the way to a marriage. call him. talk things out
2006-11-17 16:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling you are not making any sense so i suggest that you do call him. he might make you feel better you sound really flustered. good luck i hope everything turns out great for the both of you.
2006-11-17 16:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by ~annie~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋