Will he freak out? please help meee?!?
And not want to date me anymore since I'm pregnant?
We already discussed about abortion if I ever did become pregnant. He's 21 by the way.
And so I find out that I' am....
I'm going to get the abortion regardless, but I don't know if I should tell him because I'm afraid he will freak out.
What should I do?
please help!
2006-11-17 07:20:13 · 22 answers · asked by ~*SagiTTarius*~ 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
HE'S NO MY BF WE ARE JUST DATING.
2006-11-17 07:29:18 · update #1
you should be honest with him because you would want to know if you were in his position,and if you tell him and he freaks out and don't want to date you anymore than it wasn't meant to be anyway. plus, he's probably going to find out soon or later and it's best if it's from you. good luck
2006-11-17 07:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion is not birth control and if this guy is not your boyfriend then why are you having sex with him. I am sorry for your choices you made that put you into this predicament. Please take the time to honestly know what to do next. Taking the life of an unborn baby is not a positive thing to have to do and you need to understand what you are doing. I suggest you seek counseling to assist you to your financial and overall situation you may be in.
IF you learn you are not pregnant, please do the responsible actions to prevent a pregnancy before it happens. You may not realize this today, but one day if you look back at a bunch of abortions, or even one, it might disrupt your mental security. I have talked to many that wished that had made a different choice.
Be accountable in this life and take it seriously enough to prevent it. Thank you.
2006-11-17 16:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by moire1111 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not your boyfriend? So tell me why are you having unprotected sex with "he's just a date"? You have to tell him and watch his reaction. In the end it is your body and you can do what you want. You're not ready for a baby as you're not in a serious relationship and neither is he. So, go for it! Just getting together for the sake of a child is stupid. And having a baby and giving it up for adoption, which would be my choice, is not always the right thing for everybody considering their monetary circumstances. You have to do what you want and think is right.
2006-11-17 20:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
number one... get some advice before you get an abortion. I'm sure they do have places to go where this help is available. number two, the Father should know of course, excuse me he sure helped , you didnt get pregnant alone. If he freaks out, tough luck for him, maybe he should be more responsible when he has sex with a woman, hasnt he heard of condoms...and you why werent you careful... Have you not heard of birth control? and "just" dating? It's time for you to take control of your life. Get some help, you shouldnt have to go thru this alone... good luck.
2006-11-17 20:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by bluelady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him..sometimes people say things they really don't mean because they don't think it will happen to them like him saying he would want you to have abortion..he may be open to adoption you never know.. either way he has a right to know wouldn't you want to know if the shoe was on the other foot
2006-11-17 21:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you thought this thing threw. You need to tell your boyfriend, he's just as responsible as you are. He might want to keep the baby. If you are dead set on not keeping the baby then give it up for adoption. If your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you because of your pregnancy, then he isn't worth it.
2006-11-17 15:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by kim_in_craig 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your body, your choice.
Even HUSBANDS don't get to make THAT decision, and you're just dating.
If you'd like, and can honestly expect, emotional a/o monetary support from him, tell him. Honesty is a good building block or test to see if he's your future.
If you're probably going to break up anyway, and have other secrets, well, stick to that pattern.
2006-11-17 15:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by sakicfriend 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel that you should do what you want to do, maybe ask yourself if this relationship is going any feather. You have to live with what ever decision you make not him he is "Just a BoyFriend"
2006-11-17 22:17:21 · answer #8 · answered by jsm2779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you shouldn't get the abortion. But, it is YOUR choice, so do what you want to. (I don't understand why you want to kill a child though...) You should tell him because he IS the baby's father and I think that he would want to be there when you get the abortion.
2006-11-17 15:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
always tell the truth the fait turns out way worse if you wait to the last minute
2006-11-17 15:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by marissa m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋