Ok so my gf and I have been involved for about 8 months now. She always ask me to buy her things. I've taken her shopping like 2 times. Not because I dont want to spoil her but because I don't have very much money. I have to help my mom with bills plus I have my own. Im supposed to take her shopping tomorrow but I really don't think she deserves to go. Lately she hasnt been acting how she normally would act. She told me shes losing intrest and shes bored but she does want to be with me. What should I do
2006-11-17 07:16:04 · 10 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she's using you. dump her and get some one that will appreciate you for your self and not your wallet
2006-11-17 07:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by island3girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude I can't believe you are putting up with that. From what it sounds like she is so using you for your money or for what you can give her. A relationship is suppose to be 50-50 but yours doesn't sound like it. What is she putting into this relationship?? I know 8 months seems like quite awhile to be in a relationship but not really....I put 2 1/2 years into a relationship and felt rushed and he hit me a few times so I bailed. I can't tell you what to do but I can tell you what I would do. I would get out of it. I mean you don't have any baggage .... no kids....right? Get out and don't look back. Let me know how things go.
2006-11-17 07:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by Angie M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you say always wanting you to buy her things what do you mean? It sounds like you have very limited funds and can not buy her anything, so might I suggest you tell her you have no Money and the future does not look much better and let her make the decision.
2006-11-17 07:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say more than likely she is USING YOU!!!! From a girls point of view to you I am telling you that she is using you until she thinks something better comes along....money can buy happiness for short periods of time but it does not make a relationship, she should undestand that you have bills you need to take care of, your and your mom's...You need to be with somone who apprecaites you and the things you can give her when it is from your heart and not demanded that you do it...is she trying to prove that you love her by you buying her all kinds of things??? She sounds immature.....you don't need another person that you need to take "care off" you cant buy her love..remember that..you can not buy her love..she is with you cause she wants to be not b/c you (are forced) buy her things
2006-11-17 07:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by Dark Goddess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This one's easy.. she's got to go.
The reason you are a girlfriend / boyfriend is because you want to be with them, and love who they are, not for them to buy you nice things all the time.
Sorry but that's just how life is, you come across people like that everynow and then, it will hurt but when you find the right girl who won't need you to buy her presents to keep her happy, you'll know it was the right thing to do.
Good luck, keep smiling man
2006-11-17 08:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Bond 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a woman who loves the person you are not how much you can buy her or how interested you can keep her .
2006-11-17 07:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. She is using you and she is a materialistic little brat. If she loved you she would not tell you she is losing interest.
2006-11-17 07:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by KathyS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ditch her. seems like she isnt too interested in anything more than your money. whats yours is yours and she should learn to respect that.
2006-11-17 07:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by turkishjr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kick her a88 to the curb.
2006-11-17 07:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a gold digger, ditch that b****!
2006-11-17 07:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by kms010494 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋