How do you really know if your husband is cheating??
2006-11-17 07:03:29 · 21 answers · asked by flyingfree_5683 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WHAT A DUMB AS S QUESTION. maybe his d ick is inside another girl then you know
2006-11-17 07:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by aligrespeq 3 · 0⤊ 8⤋
I don't agree with the others who wrote that if you think he is...then he is.
there are three sides to every story...his...hers and the truth.
He might BE cheating, but do NOT accuse him until you have proof.If he is NOT cheating , the accusation that he is may hurt your relationship....if he is...he will only deny it when confronted. MY adice to you is to watch carefully , dig, follow him, read cell phone bills, investigate. A friend of mine caught her husband cheating by going to by a small voice actived recorder....putting it by her husbands chair...then making a big deal about how she was exhausted and in need of a long bubble bath...emphasis on long! While she was iin the tub he thought he had time to call the girlfriend ...iot was all caught on tape....although it was only his voice on tape, he said plenty to land him a divorce.
2006-11-17 15:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
check his e-mail, the scent of his clothing, his cell or just drop by his job by surprise, call him the night if he hasn't come home, do you suspect of somebody and if you know thet woman and where she lives drop by her house(when he tells you he is working over-time, he might be in the others womans homuse). it is very rare for a woman to find out that her husband is cheating on her, because like many men the have always tricks, i suggest that you hire a private detective. good luck.
2006-11-17 15:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you REALLY know? When you walk in on him with someone else. Anything else leaves at least slight room for doubt. If you have a good idea of when and where he is doing it, then you can catch him if he is. I must caution here though, if you accuse and he is innocent, the damage could be just as bad.
2006-11-17 15:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like the other answers - if you think he is cheating he more than likely is. You should come out and ask him. Either he won't be able to lie to you and he'll be honest with you or you will be able to tell that he is lying.
2006-11-17 15:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by tkeppers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to catch him. Shorten his leash a little and see how he reacts. If he is "working late" surprise him at work with a hot meal. If he is "on a business trip" monitor the credit card bill. Make him accountable for every waking minute of the day.
2006-11-17 15:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I give up..... how do U know if Ur husband is cheating
2006-11-17 15:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will notice changes in his normal behavior.
He'll either start trying to look better, cleaner, be more interested in his everyday looks.
He'll be keeping phone calls secret, emails. He'll start saying he has to work late, or be gone longer on travel trips.
He'll either decrease his sex drive or be wanting it more than usual. ( he'll be fantasizing it's the one he's messing with, not you).
He leaves in one set of clothes and comes home in another.
Check phone bills, credit card purchases.
2006-11-17 15:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Gut instinct, tells you something isn't right. And if you suspect, do NOT let him know, just be more watchful and check things out, never give your secrets away that you suspect he may be cheating. Just start looking, and investigate, he will and i mean WILL trip himself up, then you can bust him.
2006-11-17 15:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you ready for this...... the real answer to your question is that you will never know for sure unless you are watching him in person at the time. Your chance of that happening are slim to none!
2006-11-17 15:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never been through this but, my mom has always told me this.If your heart tells you he is, then he is.She always says that a women can feel it.But, some women ignore the fact that their man is cheating.Sometimes when you know reality you don't accept it. Good luck!
2006-11-17 15:08:41 · answer #11 · answered by melissa p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋