2006-11-17 06:46:12 · 10 answers · asked by SHYONE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've been though the same thing you have to move on it will take a while and it will be hard it will hurt but soon it will be all over and you will be better off. You can never trust him again and ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER..
2006-11-17 07:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take him back, because if you do then he'll think that it is ok for him to do it again and again, once a cheater always a cheater, don't you think you deserve someone that will treat you right and want cheat on you, if you take this man back you'll never be able to trust him cause it will always be in the back of your head that he cheated and the first time he doesn't call you are he comes over late you gonna wounder where he is and I don't think you need that ,find someone that loves you and someone you can trust. You'll sleep better trust me.
2006-11-17 15:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you already found out he cheated on you once, what makes you think he wont do it again? Or that it was only once? You have to make the decision if you are going to forgive him and keep him, IF you can trust him. But you are going to find yourself wondering, everytime he goes somewhere with out you or you cant reach him, if he is with her or even someone else. Step back and take a time out. Think about if that is what you want to do or do you want someone whom you can trust? I, personally, would run for the hills. Usually if they cheat once, they will always cheat.
2006-11-17 14:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by kimmamarie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he devorced in the first place. Do you know. Did he cheat on her too. Chances are he will cheat on you with others. Do you love him enough to live with that. He is still a boyfriend. This is the time to answer the tough questions or live with a life time of hurt.
2006-11-17 14:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS ALWAYS HARD TO GET OVER SOMEONE YOU REALLY LOVE. BUT IF YOUR MAN LOVED YOU HE WOULDNT HAVE CHEATED ON YOU WITH HIS EX. YOU ARE BETTER OFF LEAVING YOUR MAN AND FINDING SOMEONE NEW. TAKE IT SLOW THOUG HGO HANG OUT WITH FRIENDS DONT GO LOOKING FOR A MAN LET THE MEN FIND YOU. THAT WAY YOU CAN HEAL FROM THE PAIN YOUR EX CAUSED YOU AND AT THE SAME TIME YOU CAN HAVE FUN WITH YOUR GIRLS.
2006-11-17 14:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by becca_2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOSE HIM!!!!!!!! I have ZERO tolerance for cheating. If he does it once and you forgive him, he'll do it again. Plus how can you trust him now? A relationship without trust is not a relationship worth having. Move on girl, find yourself a GOOD guy.
2006-11-17 14:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by anothermelody2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater Always a cheater! Drop him and move on to someone better!
2006-11-17 14:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He didn't love you enough to not cheat. Let him go, if you stay, he'll think it's ok to do it again to you..and you deserve better treatment.
2006-11-17 14:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him go he obviously has no regaurd for ur relationship if he cheated
2006-11-17 14:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
make him your B*tch for the next month boss him around and tell him what to do
if you really want him and if he really wants you you will take my advice, give me ten points and do it
2006-11-17 14:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋