ladies: do u consider this abnormal?

Question

i drive a truck for a living and im gone 3-4 weeks at a time. when i get home i expect to have sex with my g/f the first night. usually we go out first to eat, come home put in a movie, then somewhere near the end of the evening i want some fun, but my g/f says this is not normal, that i should be able to come home do the things i said above but not expect to have sex the first night. ur opinions. just to clear up some things, there are no kids, she works mon-friday and no health problems exist

Answer 1

I used to date a truck driver.when he was gone he was gone to long and when he was home he was home to long .lol
Does she worry about lot lizards?
Its really hard to adapt to a truck drivers schedule.

Answer 2

Cut her some slack and try being a little less demanding - for crying out loud, she is only your girlfriend. Also stop calling her condition abnormal or accuse her of cheating. It will make her angry, and cause you more problems than you can handle.
After 3-4 weeks, she has literally forgotten who you are, and she has to get to know you all over again. You are this strange man who has walked right in, and is demanding instant sexual satisfaction. She is under no obligation to service you. Women don't always get horny like guys do. She is a women who obviously wants to be aroused slowly. She must be romanced almost as if you are having a first date. Don't make assumptions and have expectations that you can walk right back into a relationship exactly where you left it. Always remember that you have to get into her head before you can get into her pants.

Answer 3

If I had a bf who left for up to a month, the first thing I'd want to do when he comes home is get in bed and stay there for at least a few hours. Has her sex drive always been low or does she have little concept about how relationships work? It's abnormal.

Answer 4

I would be very suspicious of this it appears to me that she doesn't want it because she has pelationsa with another guy when your away only a thought. I'm sorry to say if the tables were turned I do believe if she is faithful that she would want to jump your bones soon as she walked through the door. I would question her about another guy or why she doesn't want to have sex you've been gone for a number of weeks it just makes no sense. Good Luck Buddy hope you find out whats going on?

Answer 5

Normal for a guy who hadn't had any in 3-4 wks.

And bro, you know the bad part to this is, if you were to come home and NOT want sex, then you would be accused of finding sex elsewhere.

Its a no win situation. Damned if you do, damned if you don't!

Answer 6

Of course its normal my husband would probly explode if he went 3-4 weeks without it...thats how guys usuall y express their feelings its good you dont just jump right in a romantic night is very appropriate to end with a good love making...

Answer 7

I don't blame you for expecting it. Maybe she has a low sex drive or is cheating on you while you are gone. I don't know. Try acting cool and seeing if she ever suggests sex or makes a move on you or whatever.

Answer 8

you're basically an adventurous dude. Do in spite of you experience is sweet. notwithstanding, I warn you that once you initiate wanting the bigger stuff like marriage, little ones and togetherness the grammas are not gonna help you there.'Coz of the low staying potential.beware of having too connected. i ought to easily finish that you're into something diverse.

Answer 9

Er. Sir, if I were the GF in this scenario we wouldn't even make it to dinner before hitting the sheets so to speak. Something else is going on in her mind or someone else is going at her body. Time to ask some questions.

Answer 10

"Normal" is a very subjective word. To men, intimacy is sex. To women, intimacy is being with the man she loves. Many women need to be turned on emotionally before they are ever turned on physically. Try compromising, is having sex with her on the 2nd night really going to kill you?