i know his sexual past and i have been talkin to him about moving in so i can be assured that there will be no sexual contact. they will not go anywere alone.
2006-11-17 06:45:27 · 25 answers · asked by thuggin_playa_69 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I think you have made a serious mistake in letting your little girl date an adult man. Have you seen how many 13 and 14 year olds on this site are pregnant? It will break your heart. I am not sure if you could get in trouble or not.
2006-11-17 10:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you are divorced and her father finds out he could press charges, also get custody. Although when I was 16 I was dating a 21 year old. It all depends on you. And you have to ask yourself some major questions. 1. Is she mature enough to be dating a guy that much older than her. 2. Does she go places alone with him, where you are not present, something bad could happen to her. 3. How well do you know this guy. 4. Finally is she strong enough to say no and handle a situation before it gets out of control. I would think about all these things, she is just a child and he is an adult, kind of on the weird side. What does he want with a 14 year old? A guy who is 18 is usually into alot of stuff that you wouldn't even want your daughter to see.
2016-03-28 23:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly. I'm a 18 year old kid. We lie about our sex lives. My parents know because they caught me. But thats all they know is about that girl and the first girl I had sex with. I could tell you how many girls I've had sex with, but thats getting a little too personal for me, but its more than 2 we'll put it that way. Teenagers lie about that kind of stuff. I wouldnt trust him, especially with a 14 year old. What an 18 year old would want with a 14 year old is sick. Shes far too young and immature to handle a relationship with someone like that. Do what is best for your daughter, dont let it happen.
But to answer your question, I dont think the relationship is illegal, but if the state finds out their having sex you'll be screwed.
2006-11-17 15:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your daughter is 14! Enough said. She's still in middle school if I'm correct. She should be hanging out with girls, painting her toes, and talking about t.v. shows, not dating a MAN! Why can't she have an "at school" boyfriend? You know, the kind where you hold hands at school, and talk on the phone, but no actual "dating" occurs? You need to seriously reevaluate your priorities. You are putting your daughter in harm's way, and teaching her that it's ok to act like an adult when she isn't. Please, for her sake, do NOT let her date! You will regret it later, because they WILL have sex sooner or later. You can't stop it. I wish you the best of luck with this. You will need it.
2006-11-17 07:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by Caelan's mom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u can't be serious! he is 18 years old. i can understand a little bit more if your daughter was dating someone that was her age, but 18 year old man. and even if you dont allow them to go anywhere alone, your not God. you can't watch over them 24/7. you eventually have to go to work. you have to go to sleep. matter of fact, him omoving in makes having sex much easier. besides you are helping your daughter do something illegal. you are her mom and your moving her in the wrong direction. your daughter may get mad at you for now, but you should do whats best for her. i'm 16 years old and i know more about parenting then u do. you need to think about the damage you may cause in your daughter's life.
2006-11-17 07:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by multiculturalmami 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An 18 year old has NO BUSINESS dating a 14 year old. It's against the law (statutory rape) for an 18 year old to have sex with someone under 18. If they do have sex, and you permit it, you can be tried as an accomplice to child endangerment and sexual exploitation. Just because he lives under your roof, doesn't mean they won't have sex. You are endangering your daughter.
2006-11-17 07:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi im Tiffany im 16 and im in a worse spot than what your daughter is , and i know for a fact that you cannot get into trouble as long as your the only parent in the household, now if you aremarried, or the father has partenal rights to your daughter then yes you can be held accountable....im 16 and pregaunt by a guy in his twenties, my mother said yes to it, andnowmy father is having her and him brought up on charges in court.........So here is a taste of what it is like.
2006-11-17 08:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by tiffany c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can get into serious trouble,each state id s different.She is still concidered a child and he is classified now as a adult,What mother in their right mind would let their daughters 18 year old boyfriend move in with them...ummm you can't watch them 24/7...She is just a child...And that is Rape and you are letting it happen!You need to be arrested for letting it happen.....
2006-11-17 07:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by dreamcatcher61670 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about legally, but from a mom who has a daughter, are you ready to raise your daughters child. Think about it, you can not always be with them. She could become pregnant in just the time it takes you to go to the grocery store.
She is way too young to be dating anyone. Think about her future. She is still a child, and has a lot of growing up to do. It does not matter how grown up she looks.
I know you want whats best for your daughter, but my goodness, think about what you are asking.
I do know legally, he could go to jail.
I also raised a son, and I understand what raging hormones can do. Promises or not, something will start.
2006-11-18 17:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by sylvrrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think it's sick. For goodness sakes, your daughter is just a kid, a child. Fourteen years of age, she's not ready to have an 18yr old man move in and live with her. If it's a meant to be relationship the man can wait four years
2006-11-17 06:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by shizzlechit 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋