Do you cheat? How often? Why? And what are signs of a cheating man? And I do consider going to strip clubs cheating.
2006-11-17 06:41:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
going to strip clubs IS cheating, you are using another women and letting her dance and touch you to please yourself! Wouldnt you care if your wife was doing that with another man? But i do agree that porn is not cheating
2006-11-17 06:50:18 · update #1
If you're trying to collect proper methods to "keep an eye" on your own man, then I truly pity him for marrying such a paranoid, shallow, insecure little girl.
I've never cheated on my wife in 18yrs together, but you would accuse me of having done it repeatedly, based on only your narrow perspective.
Funny how content we are, then, comparatively.
We'll see how yours goes in a few more years.
2006-11-17 06:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No Never Cheated 25 Years of Marriage. Don't Know sign's of a Cheating Man.
2006-11-17 14:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by bob r 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't go to strip clubs and I don't think it's cheating (but that's me). I don't cheat and never have. I agree looking at porn is not cheating but it can become an addiction.
2006-11-17 19:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm not a married guy (obviously) But I do have to say something to the ones that responded saying " Going to a strip club is not cheating"
If your spending money on another women that is not your mother or sister, it is a form of cheating.Especially if you are spending it on whores.
2006-11-17 14:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman and I do not consider strip clubs cheating. Now if he went every weekend I would consider him to be weak. My husband went to a strip club for a bachelor party and he had a lot of fun. Do I feel hurt? Do I feel betrayed? No, I certainly do not.
2006-11-17 15:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'ne never cheated on my wife in 15 years of marriage and no, going to a strip club, masterbating or looking at porn on a computer are not cheating.
2006-11-17 14:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by stevekc43 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Have cheated, lost and learned. Currently wouldn't cheat.
Signs: late nights out, cell phone calls he won't answer or take in front of you, change in his routine (normally comes home straight from work, now stops off at a buddies house or bar). Honestly, most women know when their man is cheating you just choose not to believe it. My ex said she knew for the longest just dealt with until it came to a boil.
As for strip clubs, let me give you an idea of what goes on. Ladies dance naked, then come off stage grind in your lap until you pay for a private dance, you head back in to the back and are propositioned for sex act. You either decline or go through with it. The guy that declines (imo) would come home horny and ready for sex, does he? The guy that comes home and goes to sleep already had sex.
2006-11-17 14:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most men cheat period. The signs would be things like staying late at work a lot, business trips out of town, money spent that is unaccounted for, look for receipts, credit card statements, bank statements, cell phone bills for anything out of the ordinary. Check up on him from time to time to see he is where he says he will be. Men are so demented and twisted that most dont see strip clubs as cheating. I really cant and dont understand how they have convinced themselves that its ok to go sit around naked women when your with someone. Their minds are all warped.
2006-11-17 14:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i don't cheat i haven't been to a strip club since i was single 8 years ago. i guess if you getting a ******** in the VIP room then yes you can considered cheating. if is just looking at the girls i don't think so
2006-11-17 15:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay let me see if I have this right.......
Women are always faithfull, and men will always cheat.
Is that right?
What a bunch of bull. When did people stop taking responsibility for the things that go on in their lives. I am sick and tired of hearing about how men are such creeps. I have been married to 3 ex wives who were liers.... users.... and manipulators. Guess what folks, each one of those mistakes were my fault. Nobody made me marry them. Does that mean that I think all women are foul? NO!
Now I'm married to a wonderful woman.... and neither one of us will cheat on the other.
But believe me when I tell you that if we, as men, are always accused of cheating and having to pay a price for it......... we might as well get something for all the agony.
2006-11-17 15:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, no need to. My wife is the most amazing part of my life. A true gift given to me by God to adore, honor and cherish.
I have no idea what the signs of a cheating man are.
2006-11-17 14:44:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋