A few years ago I broke up with a girl, who was my best friend, and she told me that no matter what if I ever wanted to be with her again she would be there for me.
Years have passed, she is married now, and I am single.
When she found out she started to call me and wants to see me again, we haven't hung out since before her wedding.
Also she told me that the Hinder song "Lips of an Angel" makes her think of me.
I still love her, I always will, fo rreasons that are to vast to explain here.
But, my question is, should I tell her that I still care about her?
2006-11-17 06:17:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if she has moved on in her life you should let her be, if she really loves you, she will rethink her life and find you.
love has no boundries but you need to let her figure that out.if she is happy then be happy for her, if not it wouldn't hurt to talk to her since she is uref riend.let her know how you feel but don't push her into anything.good luck and there are millions of fish in the sea.
2006-11-17 06:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look maybe you should tell her how you feel but it is not fair for her husband. Women are complicated we can be in love with two guys at the same time, but stick with our more secure one. I understand that you will always have feelings for her but dont be the one who made them get a divorce, let her know how you feel and that you dont want to be in the middle. its either or and she needs to decide.
2006-11-17 14:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by trsfernandez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her because it wouldn't be fair on either of you. She's married now. Stay in touch with her as a friend and if they ever split up then you could tell her. If your meant to be together you will be. be it now or in 5 years time!
2006-11-17 14:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by lucy c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would remain her friend... she is married now. and you dont want to be the one in the middle or the one responsible for the break up of a marriage. when they split you should tell her but not until then.
2006-11-17 14:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by becca_2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not... if it's your true feelings... telling her and expecting her to leave her husband is one thing... but to me telling someone that you love them isn't a crime... don't have an affair... that's when you get into what I could consider... WRONG!!!!
2006-11-17 14:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you should not. You are better without her. You should be gratefull you are not her husbend by now.
Go on with your life and try to find somone else.Believe me there are plenty good girls.
2006-11-17 14:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by green eyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋