I just started school again and i met this gurl ********* and she told me we would be best friends and everything, but i notied that every guy i told her were cute or that i like she would start flirting with them and messing with them, what should i do?
2006-11-17 06:05:28 · 13 answers · asked by catwomen322003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
quit talking to her. don't be friends with her anymore.
you can tell that you can't trust her with anything. she's not worth it. she obviously doesn't respect you.
2006-11-17 06:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all know one can tell you that you and her are best friends , friendships are earned and if she is flirting with boys that you told her were cute or you like is definitely not your Friend. Friends would never ever step on your toes, she would never betray you she would always be there for you and help you try and get you to together with the guy not try and flirt with him to hurt your feelings . so i say your still very young and have lots of time for boys and making real friends so drop her like yesterday and start looking for new Friends that will eventually become your best friend lol
2006-11-17 07:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by bringing to her attention that she appears to be doing it, and explain why you feel that way. Maybe she doesn't realize it.
However if you know that it is a diliberate action on her part without talking with her...
DROP HER LIKE A BAD HABIT.
There are plenty of fish in the sea...friends and men.
She shouldn't go for the fish you are trying to catch if she is your friend...and you can catch better friends than that too while you are checkin out the guys.
Good luck.
2006-11-17 06:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by Randal D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that happened to me when I was in high school and in college. My best friend got pregnant by my boyfriend and I didn't even KNOW it until one of my gay friends told me and I ran into those fools exactly where he said that they would be. My ex had told me he was hanging out with her brother. Sure enough they are still together til this day.
You have to learn to SHUT your mouth. If you have some skank hoes in your world that appear to be jealous of you then drop them because trust me it can be a life or death situation. I had to go to therapy for a little while because I was so hurt that my friends really weren't my friends. they were jealous of me the whole time and they caused my boyfriend to turn on me and he was a looser because he listened.
in relationships you have to be silent.... watch who you tell your info. get a journal or you'd be better off telling us on yahoo.
hahahahhahaha
2006-11-17 06:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by The PurpleScorpionGoddess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your friends are not real friends. They apparently aren't aware of the pact friends have that they never date their best friend's girlfriend/boyfriend even after they've ended their relationship.
It also sounds like the girl is not worth your time. It sounds like she is playing head games with you to make you jealous.
My advice is to find someone you really like..and keep your interests between you and this person and no one else. It works..trust me.
2006-11-17 06:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Judy S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can either drop that friend like a bad habit or do what I did when that happened to me and start goin out with whatever dude you like to let her know that you liked him first and now you got him all to yourself.
2006-11-17 06:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop telling her who you like and go for it yourself! Dont be her shadow, she obviously thinks in some capacity that she is better than you. Dont let her! Snag the guys you want!
2006-11-17 06:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit telling her then find a new best friend.
2006-11-17 06:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, quit telling her?
Or would that be too simple and logical?
2006-11-17 06:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by pjnickles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a new "best friend".
2006-11-17 06:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋