I had a argument on my dress with my fiance? He told me i still have 45 days to think about it. because our wedding date is set. And he is not forcing me to marry me. I am the one who did it. I am so hurt what should i do, I am so hurt why did he say all that in small argument?
2006-11-17 04:38:50 · 8 answers · asked by ALMAS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he's an idiot. he's probably frustrated. u might wanna think twice b4 getting married
2006-11-17 05:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your fiance should not have even seen your dress, it's tradition for him to not see it before the wedding, that it may bring bad luck.
Thus he would not have known untill it was too late, what can he do as you walk down the isle? He needs to learn to allow you that decision just as you allow him to choose his suit.
If you can't deal with little arguments as you put it like this now, your not ready to get married.
I have been with my husband for 25 yrs and believe me, you need to choose your battles, that one would be one you should not be having.
I suggest you exchange your dress and this time don't let him see it before the wedding, if he insists tell him it's bad luck and don't let him.
If he persists then he is a control freak and marrying him will probably lead to a life of unhappiness. If that's the case..... Get out now while you still can!
2006-11-17 12:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your selection of dress might not be liked by him or you might have used strong words during the argument which may have annoyed him. Cooperation with each other, understanding, feelings are very important and you should talk to him and ascertain from him the reasons for his outburst. and try to take him into confiden ce
2006-11-17 12:47:43 · answer #3 · answered by khayum p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a lot for him to say that. I would be worried about that also. Or he could be in a lot of stress and just counting the days hes going to be taken off the market. I would sit down and ask him, tell me do you want to marry me? Then state your concerns. Listen to his answers but dont argue.
2006-11-17 12:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by what tha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to know what to tell you when I dont know the things that he said. but i am assuming that they were pretty hurtful. The best option is always to try to talk it out and resolve the issue in a civil manner. Obivously if you love him enough to marry him, you love him enough to talk to him. and he should be the same with you. i hope this helps. good luck!
2006-11-17 12:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i get the story right their are 45 days till your wedding and hes asking you to think about it right ? well dont jump to conclusions maybe hes not having cold feet here maybe he just dosent want you to make a mystake and then when your married regret it. seems to me like he want to make shure you do want to marry him so he dosent suffer awwww
2006-11-17 12:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by luby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey why you two are fighting? well ask sorry and try to adjust you too.
2006-11-17 12:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sarafriday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cold feet???
2006-11-17 12:44:09 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋