I am so pissed off right now...would it be immature of me to put a card in the door of his apartment that states "Thank You...for the STD?"
I want to damage something...but I know that it's not worth it. Would a card work? He has a roomate and it would be possible for him to see it...That would be funny to me...
2006-11-17 04:32:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The cheating issue is far more serious than damaging something.
I'd say the damage has already been done to you. The more important issue is : is it worth staying in a relationship with him?
2006-11-17 04:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that, My bf gave me herpes 4 yrs ago. And I know who was the h*e he slept with. I have her # and I know she has an STD if I really wanted to do I can expose her for all the damage that she's caused me and who knows how many other people. But, guess what you will always have the upper hand and be the better person dropping it as much as it hurts. Because everything in life catches up. You wouldnt want someone to do that you. Good luck and remember its not the end of the world. =)
2006-11-17 04:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While the urge to “get even” by hurting your ex may be nearly overwhelming, constructive alternatives often provide the greatest lasting satisfaction. These alternatives forgiveness, Forgiveness is the mental and/or spiritual process of ceasing to feel resentment or anger against another person for a perceived offense and go on with your life.
Remember that If we practice an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth, soon the whole world will be blind and toothless. (Mahatma Gandhi)
2006-11-17 04:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!!! Something like this happened to me, but the situation was different. I was pregnant with my bf's baby and i found out i had chlamydia at a doctors appt. I just knew he had to of cheated, but he denied it and I found out that he got it from his nasty a$$ exgirlfriend. Thank God that chlamydia is cured with one dose of some kind of antibiotic pills and I didn't have it long enough for it to damage any reproductive parts. We are still together now and married, but he was lucky because if it would have been like in your case I would have posted it in the newspaper or taped up a big a$$ banner in the middle of town. He would have never gotten laid in that town again!!!
2006-11-17 04:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by mama4e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you may desire to bear in mind is have you ever been to the gyno on the grounds which you have been with him as properly this right here cutting-edge experience. i had an ex provide me chlamydia while i turn into preggo. i turn into with him a pair years so were to the wellbeing care expert for my annual. he tried to convince me that the two i had all of it that element or that he have been given it from a prior dating. i had to do the maths of the final time i were to the wellbeing care expert and had no longer something pop up. if your gut is telling you some thing now's the time to hearken to it. my ex refused to take the medicine precise away. as quickly as I informed my chum approximately it she noted that it turn into so he could desire to sleep with that woman returned. i did no longer flow away him precise away. as quickly as I gave start i had a fever and another problems. seems he gave me yet another distinctive (curable) STD. so stick on your instincts right here in the previous you marry him and could ought to handle those products on your marriage too. next time you won't be so fortunate and you're transforming into some thing for all times.
2016-12-29 04:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is a jerk for cheating on you in the first place...Your anger is getting the worst of you right now and honestly, I would feel the same! But it might end up making you look immature and stupid. EVEN THOUGH it does sound like a good idea.
2006-11-17 04:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by Roxy1316 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would do the card thing , But I would also make sure I said some thing to him when I seen him with his new gf. like
oh by the I forgot to thank you for the std you gave me .. you A**ho*e .. make it hard for him to live life with out thinking about what he has done to you .. or tell all his friends ..
2006-11-17 04:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it would be very immature. Besides the card you might want to start leaving comments on his MySpace and where ever else he posts and be sure to make a big deal of it when you see him at a club. Or the grocery store. You will never make him suffer as you have but you sure can try!
2006-11-17 04:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Calm down there! Stuff like this happens. First you should be going to the doctors to see what you can do to make it better. Is it one that can be cured or is it like herpes where you always have it? Maybe your ex doesn't even know he has something...you should call and let him know and any partners you've been with since so they can get treatment as well and just be aware of the fact.
I'm sorry that happened to you.
2006-11-17 04:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is an issue for the health department in your State. You should report him so they will contact him for a sample or examination. See if they do that where you live, it should be reported to stop from any further transmissions.
2006-11-17 04:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋