Do you think it's okay to buy a guy flowers? My fiance is always buying me flowers when I'm down. He's going through some rough times and I want to do something to cheer him up. I make him dinner every night and we go out to eat often, so that wouldn't work. Any suggestions?
2006-11-17 04:32:40 · 11 answers · asked by angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i like it because thats what he does for you, and this is sorta (not only trying to cheer him up but) letting him know that you appreciate the flowers when he brings them to you
2006-11-17 04:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with buying a man flowers, Just think about which kind you buy, Get something he likes and not something you like.
It also depends on your Man, some are so paranoid that they put on bravado attitudes of Men don't need anything but if he is not one of those then go for it.
All buying flowers says is, I'm thinking about you! It does not insinuate anything else.
But choose the flowers carefully, either ones you know he likes or somthing not too fragile and feminine.
But here's an idea that may help.... book a weekend away in a secluded spot for just the two of you to get him away from what ever it is thats dragging him down and make the wknd all about him. Do the things he likes and share his interests for the weekend. They say a change is as good as a rest!
It works with my man!
2006-11-17 12:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flowers are good and its the thought that us guys apperciates. If anything make some sandwiches and plan a senic trip (even the park) and have a picnic. Cheap but memorable. This way you take him away from his stress and its just you and him. If anything strip for him we always like that.
2006-11-17 12:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by what tha 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to buy him flowers but if you do add somdething to it like buy him memorabila from his favorite sports team just to make the flowers a nice gesture and sports gift makes him still feel manly.
2006-11-17 12:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by ONE N ONLY 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, bring him a flower. Not a big bouquet but something small. I had a gf that did that for me one time and it felt great. It is something out of the ordinary, but thoughtful.
2006-11-17 12:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a very sweet person,good for you.flowers sound nice.you could stick a note in his pocket telling him that your thinking of him. you could make him a nice bubble bath,with candles the works.ive done this and the guy i was seeing at the time looooved it.men love to be taken care of,pampered if you will. after the bath have a nice dinner w/ him.this is gauranteed to make him feel good!!
2006-11-17 12:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a man, I've been bought flowers before, and I didn't like it. Is he a drinker? If so, get him a nice bottle of his favorite liquor, or some of his favorite beer with a bow/ribbon on it. If he isn't a drinker, then a card should do.
2006-11-17 14:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've bought guys flowers before, and surprisingly they liked it. it brought a smile every time.
2006-11-17 12:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by marie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say it's ok, not usual but theres nothing wrong with that
2006-11-17 13:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by crazygirl123 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure.
2006-11-17 12:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by Hank S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋