not expecting many answers kinda personal !but please whena and how?
2006-11-17 04:19:31 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
A few years ago, but never really acted on it. I have kissed other girls, but nothing else. I wish I would have acted on those feelings when I was younger and had the chance. I think a few of my girl-friends would have been into if we would have known what it was at the time. Oh the memories of youth I could have had! What about you? How far have you gone?
2006-11-17 04:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by verhotica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to sound weird, but I don't think I ever had an 'epiphany' moment. I always a very sexually mature child, always thinking about it in the way that kids do- you have no idea what it's really about at all, but you make stuff up in your head. I had a gazillion little crushes on pretty much every boy in my classroom, and while I never had a conscious crush on a girl, I think I sort of knew that I liked my best girl friends- not that I 'liked' them, but that it was a sort of option. I'm sorry, I know that's not clear.
In sixth grade, I made out with a girl named Sarah in my closet repeatedly and didn't much care for it, but I guess that was the first indication that I didn't see any real difference between the genders as sexual/romantic possibilities. As time went on, I sort of forgot that experience and wandered through life feeling, basically, straight, just because I liked guys so much (and I still do). Then not too long ago I started getting knee-deep in queer theory in school and just couldn't ignore how queer I really was- meaning far more than just bisexual, but now I happily proclaim myself as one. I've never really been in denial, I just sort of never really knew.
Hope that wasn't too confusing!
2006-11-17 16:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its something that some girls decided to hid till their old enough to bring it back out and deal with.
I personally knew when i was very young i would say about 9 or 10 but thought it was a very very bad thing and never acted on it..... like another person said i would sometimes think about very sexy women when my boyfriend went down on me and this would turn me on soooo much. I have now told him how i feel and he is letting me pursue my feelings. I am still a Bi virgin so fingers crossed i will lose it soon lol
2006-11-17 16:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Dharma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew from about the age of 12 that I was attracted to women though I didn't have a relationship with a woman until I was 25 so spent a VERY long time thinking about it.
2006-11-20 11:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Hayley R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always - but didn't admit it to myself until in mid twenties when I was less afraid of social pressure & more secure. It can be hard if it's not even expected to be an option by people around & you've grown up in a homophobic environment.
It can take time to come to terms with, but it's great to feel comfortable with your sexuality in the end & not care what others might say.
2006-11-17 12:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by Firebrandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at a young age is natural to explore
however .. it is my observation :
everyone is potentially bi
much depends on the willingness or the courage to explore it ..
I haven't yet in my case having to do with not wanting to fall in an emotional entanglement
as even friends rely upon me ..too much at times and lovers even more ...
I value my freedom above all !
if I met someone free enough not to place emotional demands on me .. I probably would,
if chemistry ,integrity and standards were compatible , that is.
2006-11-17 12:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by angelica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I was a little girl (like elementary school little), I was kind of really into pornography and I honestly thought that I was a lesbian but as I grew up, I began to like guys more and put the lesbian thing on the back burner. But as I matured, the lesbian thing came back and I found out/decided that I swing both ways.
I think the person above me needs to read the news and learn about how even animals are bisexual.
2006-11-17 12:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 0⤋
12 y/o
2006-11-17 15:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 11-12
2006-11-17 12:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jimmi H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I really got into sex at about 15-16 and realized that the though of girl on girl sex excited me. But I didn't let myself feel it or act on it until recently, and I'm in my late 20's. I'm still exploring it and working on getting comfortable with it.
2006-11-17 12:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋