I respect people, dont swear, I dont talk alot, get good grades, I'm pretty social, listen to my parents, dont make messes, I'm normally a really happy person. But I'm not perfect. Definetly not. I make mistakes the same as everyone else but for some reason I have like no friends. I'm being myself, do people just not like that?
I'm so confused.
~suki
2006-11-17 04:10:03 · 15 answers · asked by Suki06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People probably think of you as a goodie goodie and feel like they can't be themselves around you. They don't think you'll be tolerate it if they curse, or drink, or act obnoxious. They probably think you'll judge them so they just steer clear of you and flock to their own kind. Just find some kids with the same values as you, like at church or something. Don't change who you are by all means!!!! Stay virtuous. The world is in need of people like you!
2006-11-17 04:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Just gorgeous dahling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you must be younger, since you mentioned your grades. If this holds true, the school years can be very trying on ones social status. Everything is based on what you wear, what you look like, your music tastes, etc. Basically very superficial. As you mature you will find true friends who will accept you for your personality and beliefs. Don't change for anyone, you are on the right track, be who you are and let others find you.
2006-11-17 12:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by VISUAL ILLISIONS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suki
It seems people don't like decent these days. But you stay true to yourself and stay the wonderful way you are, life will move on and someday you will have friends and you won't have anything to be ashamed of. You hang in there, if they aren't friendly then they probably aren't worth your time.
2006-11-17 12:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like the perfect friend to me........the rest of the world just doesn't know what they are missing out on. we'll be your friend until someone comes along. God bless you and don't change for anyone.
to have something to do, volunteer somewhere. getting out will help you meet people.
2006-11-17 12:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by Texas T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you just made a new friend... along with every bodie in this forum... Thank you Suki... Write soon. EFIL
2006-11-17 12:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just a suggestion, try smiling at people. People are then drawn to you. If you are quiet, try talking to them and having a laugh. I am sure then your personality will shine. Good luck x
2006-11-17 12:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think people are intimidated by you but I don't think you should change who you are just because people don't want to be your friend. People will try to force you to give into their demands for you to be like them because they'll try to take advantage of you or gain from what you're offering like if you do something crazy around them. Please don't alter who you are to please anyone.
I'll be your friend, click on my pic and send me an e-mail. Check out places on the web like MySpace, FaceBox, etc.
2006-11-17 12:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you - maybe try to join a club and find friends with similar interests, or try to talk to people more often.
2006-11-17 12:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by CherryPie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People want you to be like them. And most people are the complete opposite of you. There are people out there who can relate to you. Don't ever change yourself to please others. They aren't worth it.
2006-11-17 12:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you've just made a new friend email me sometime on ireland_pink_hamster@yahoo.co.uk
looking forward to hear from you.
pinky
2006-11-17 12:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by danni 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋