I know i dont need a boyfrend im 15 but i want to know what goes in my dads mind 4 not letting boys go out wiv me. yes as frends he does but he still sees it in a bad way and wont let me have boyfrend til im 16. i dont want to hide things from my dad cos i love him a lot but at the same time what should i do?¿:D
2006-11-17 04:03:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
First of all, i just wanna say that you're not too young so dont listen to the people that tell you that. They dont decide when you're ready, you do.
And secondly, try comprimising with your dad. Let him met the person that you want to date so he knows that he's a good guy and has nothing to worry about. If he knows the boy is going to treat you right and be respectful, mabey he'll feel more confortable letting you date.
2006-11-17 05:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels that you are too young to have a boyfriend and should wait until you are a little older. Then you will become a more responsible and mature person. He doesn't want you to get pregnant at 15. He knows what is going on boy's minds at age 15 because he have been through it before and he trys to protect you from that kind of trouble. Fathers are very protective of their daughters at age 15, while mothers are way more lenient. When I was 15, my father was the same way too. Your father is more lenient than mine to allow you to date at 16 while my father didn't let me date until 20.
2006-11-17 07:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by youngwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just being protective of you which is natural. Wait and see there may not even be a boy you like enough to make him your boy friend,if there is invite him to your house and let your parents get to know him a little they will soon let down their guards if they know the boy.
Anyway a little kiss and a cuddle does not have to be reported back to your parents remember they don't want or need to know EVERYTHING about your relationship with the opposite sex.
Don't be in a ruch though,have fun being single and cementing friendships for starters and then the sexual relationships will be easier to manage. Good luck
2006-11-17 04:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by strictmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason to rush having a boyfriend. If your parents will let you have boys as friends then keep it that way. You only have to wait a year(or less) to have a boyfriend. Really it is very important to know how to still be friends with boys and not always want to date them. That way when you are mature enough to be in a relationship you will make smarter choices. I told my daughter she can't have a boyfriend until she is 16 too. It isn't because I want to make her feel bad it is because I care about her and want her to be mature enough to make smart choices.
2006-11-17 04:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by Becky R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how about this. When I turned 14 she told I could have a bf. So I introduced her my bf and she hated him. Then she said I had wait til I was sixteen. Which only forced us to sneak around. I feel your pain. Four years later my guy and I are still 2getha!!
I felt bad at first for lying,but parents forget that they were once young! He's trying to protect you from pregnancy and diseases, but at the same time he has to let you grow up!!
2006-11-17 04:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by chinesefoodruleZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They care about you and believe it or not that is a good thing. I won't let my daughters date until they are 16 either, mostly because I know what boys are like at that age, I am just being careful . Just be patient and wait it out, it won't be too much longer until you are 16. Dating isn't easy.
2006-11-17 04:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I know your just curious to see what it is like. And I understand your father worries. Try sitting with your Father and open up to what you feel and tell him why. Become great friends with your Father and trust your father in what ever he says and maybe he will ask to meet the boy you like and agree having him over and you guys go to his house. Its right if a boy knows your weak and you do everything he likes than he s not good and doesnt respect you. Guys know what to say to make you feel like they really love you. Just remember your private parts shall never be seen or touch until after marriage and than you will know that you have the right guy for his manners and respect of what you believe. Be patient and trust your father.
2006-11-17 04:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by racey dweik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do you know you love your dad who will always be there for you or some guy you date for a while till you get bored with eacother all im sayin is people date way to young im a sevie right and every other seveie except me and my friends have aa bf except for one she has one every other 2 months but she somtimes thinks shes miss popular but we still love her well i do have another friend were one day she has a bf the next she may or may nt she may even have a new one so just wait the right guy will come in time and just cuz your older then be doent mean you shouldnt listen to me
2006-11-17 11:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show them a way where you can be trusted, and talk to them about it. Maybe they'll understand how you feel and trust you more. But don't try to sneak out because if you get caught it'll just make things worse.
2016-05-21 22:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe (gulps) trust your parents judgement. At your age you think you are mature enough to handle things, but you aren't. I was in a very serious relationship when I was 14-15 years old and totally mishandled it. I wish I would've waited until I was older to start seeing someone.
2006-11-17 04:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋