I have never tried anal sex but i've always been curious. I have occasionally used toys on that area. I've found the key is to relaxing. When i use toys i know i'm in control and so it doesn't hurt because my hole is relaxed. But i now want to go to the next level and try it with my man. I absolutely love the feeling of something inside my bum hole, especially while i masturbate, it give amazing 'filled' orgasms. And if i'm brutally honest i sometimes feel horny just doing a big poo! But my man is a bit larger than any toy i've used and i want the first time with him to be as amazing as all my 'solo' efforts. If it was bad it would put me off and i really wat to enjoy it! I'm not sure how to ask him either. And I just want to know i'm not alone in feeling this way about anal experiences. Has anyone else gone through this?
2006-11-17 03:44:38 · 13 answers · asked by Alicia D 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
This is mainly for the girls.
2006-11-17 03:50:45 · update #1
Another thing i forgot to say. I learnt the hard way, that you should use the toilet before you try putting anything in there. Can get a bit messy otherwise. Girls if you haven't tried this then you seriously should consider it! It's become a bit of a routine for me. Use the toilet, lube up the little dildo and work it in, then masturbate as usual. The best orgasms i've ever had!
2006-11-17 03:58:01 · update #2
I've heard guys say it but i think i'm the only girl who enjoy a good poo now and then!
2006-11-17 04:41:55 · update #3
Anal sex can be very stimulating. I've often enjoyed reading gay erotica just for that... In reality, however, most men are bigger than a dildo and if he's not careful and you're not properly lubricated, it can be painful. I did it once and found it painful. But I'd never inserted anything there before and he was rather well endowed. If you've practiced "solo", it should go a lot easier and should be very pleasurable. Have him stimulate the clitoris, or do it yourself, while he's in there. I've enjoyed manual stimulation of the anus, so I'd probably try it again sometime.
ps.
There usually isn't any fecal matter in the rectum until you have to poop, so that shouldn't be an issue... and yes, I too do enjoy a good poop. There's something rather erotic about it.
2006-11-17 04:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by CJ 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I did it once when I was really drunk. My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years it was about 2 years ago. It was something I never thought I would do. It was new years and we were really drunk....He stayed over my house and I had my period at the time. We started to get into it and for some reason I just kept rubbing his d*ck around there and it just happened...We used lubricant because it goes a lot better. It actually didn't hurt like I thought it would. Maybe cause I was out of it. The only thing is..I had to go to the bathroom REALLY bad after. I have not done it since but I would try it again.
2006-11-17 03:52:50 · answer #2 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Just Ask Him To put In Your A@@ i'm Sure He Won't Have a problem With That and Tell Him To Be Easy and slow Use Lot's of Lube
2006-11-17 05:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by bob r 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No
2017-02-04 13:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been where you are... what I did was got on top of him... after having sex for a little I lubed him up real well, put his penis THERE and said "want to?"
He still brings that day up to me all the time! He calls it "The best day of his life". (I loved it too)
2006-11-17 06:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by Help_Me 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
These are two very informative sites. My wife loves and demands anal a minimum of twice a month - going for 20 years, now.
http://www.very-koi.net/anal.htm
http://www.analsexyes.com/
Have fun!
2006-11-18 00:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good for you that you want to try it with your bf! I also find it very stimulating, especially when I'm on my period and we can't do anything else. I suggest that you have him use a condom (for hygiene) and use some lubricant (for intense pleasure). There are some ribbed and textured condoms out there, I suggest you give those a try! You might be surprised.
2006-11-17 04:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i have done it a few times and it gets me really horny but i shat myself right after!! i must admit i do prefer it normally though and doggy style rocks!! but i must say when my man fingers me and does me up the bum at the same time, i get the best orgasms EVER!!!!!! aaah even talking about it gets me horny
2006-11-17 11:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by lauren b 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did it about twice, It was Good but I prefer the original way. I have to be really horny to have my boyfriend do it there.
2006-11-17 04:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Anal sex rocks!!!! He will love knowing that you wanna try it! Just tell him to take it slow and easy, use lots of lube, and be sure to relax!!!!
2006-11-17 03:48:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋