It seems that the freedom and flexibility in your personality and lifestyle is what attracted them to you in the first place but then once you are in the relationship, they are busy trying to change you or restrict you.
2006-11-17 03:35:21 · 15 answers · asked by confused69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I totally understand how u feel, i was there, still kind of there.
This stems from his insecurity and since he doesn't want to lose you, he tries hiding you away.
The thing is that he needs to realize that you are still a person and not his 'possession'. Remind him that you need to continue being the person that he fell in love with in the first place. Reassure him that he is the person that you want, even though he may not be super-everything. Making him secure in your heart and arms will gain you more freedom.
It is working for me now. Good luck.
2006-11-17 04:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by stacy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 01:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men react this way in a relationship. And it is not only men that do this, women also have these issues. It is insecurity within oneself that causes these issues. This is a big red flag, leading into a possible abusive situation. Personally, I would get out now and run don't walk, get away while you can. Good luck and God bless.
2006-11-17 03:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men have psychological problems like the way you describeyour partner/s have.
No one has the right to do that to you. So you'd better stop that practice of him.
Possible reasons why they do that:
- wants to have you by himself and maximize sexual encounter;
- paranoia;
- bitter experience with past girlfriends who left him;
- unwholesome or abused childhood.
2006-11-17 04:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by louie0894 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like that really dont like the things that you do, even if its not bad. They want you to do what they want, instead of 50/50. Men whom are like that they dont how to love and understand their spose, girlfriend. and they may only wantit that way by ;learning it or evenseeing it by their own dad or even mother.
2006-11-17 04:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by karen j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of many reasons men are very insecure than they will admit., Jeluosy is #1,having your best friend take her away on you .Is one more,mabe she will find someone better than you,mabe he is so volunerable he is not worth it. Victorio
2006-11-17 08:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by Victorio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men do not like to show emotion but they are afraid of loosing you. I totaly understand what you mean!
2006-11-17 04:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is probably overly possessive and abusive , get while the getting is good, you dont need that kind of relationship
2006-11-17 03:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by Tianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called control.....some men feel that someone else may come along and take you away from them
2006-11-17 03:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear confused.......... this isn't how it's supposed to be. Sounds like you have a control freak on your hands.
2006-11-17 03:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by shizzlechit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋