We were engaged, and then took a split for 6 months, in the meantime, he has seen other ppl, and some steady. He said they broke up yesterday.. and he's talking about how that relationship wasn't the same as the one we had..and he missed me. What should I do?
2006-11-17 03:17:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what an i say is that trust your own instinct...women intuition...if you think that he is the one,you should accept him back but if you think he is not...
just leave him...that is what i do before i make up my mind to accept my husband right now
2006-11-17 03:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by love me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he still considered your fiance' if you split up?
Taking a break if both parties agreed seems okay. I guess thats what an engagement is for, to be sure you are ready. Although, with having a couply steady girlfriends sounds like he may not have been/is ready.
My opinion just start dating again. See what happens then get re-engaged but don't just run off and get married now that he has finish sowing his oates.
2006-11-17 11:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were more than just dating. You were engaged to this guy. He moved on and 'test' drover other makes/models of girls. Now, he wants back? JUST SAY NO!
When the next flashy gal comes around the block, don't you think he will need another break?
2006-11-17 11:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by HowdyThere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find someone else eventually. He has moved back to you after being with this girl, and he missed you. Why all of a sudden he is missing you, after the break up of the other relationship. If he missed you he would have come back to you before the breakup. Sounds like BS to me. Good luck.
2006-11-17 11:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like someone who got broken up with by this other woman and his now hoping you'll take him back so he won't be alone. Show him to the door and tell him to grow up, that you have much better things to do with your time and energy than wait for him to break up with you yet again. He is playing you and playing other women as well. Find someone worthy of your love, not this petty moron.
2006-11-17 11:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go screw himself. if you two were engaged and he left you and started dating other people, and the split was only 6 months, he doesn't love you! How dare coming to you and telling you about his relationship with someone else that he left yesterday! are you kidding me? Tell him to f*ck off!
2006-11-17 11:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I wouldn't be on here asking this. He'll be gone.
I would not want to get back with someone who had been with other people while on a "break"
What's this a freakin Friends episode?
2006-11-17 11:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by Cucking Fracked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb. There is a better MAN out there who will love you and cherish what he has with you. Someone who respects you and would never even dream of leaving you because he knows that you are it for him. You are everything to him. Respect yourself enough to wait for that guy. Don't settle
2006-11-17 11:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by Katie L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would get out of that relationship b/c most ppl grieve and dont go hook up if he did it once he will be tempted again sorry but it is the truth it happened to me
2006-11-17 11:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by softball_gurl_24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur engaged and then split for six months? and he saw(fu.cked) other people - maybe you guys aren't meant for each other. im sure you can find someone who will love you and not have any doubts about it
2006-11-17 11:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋