2006-11-17 02:33:56 · 35 answers · asked by Amhed Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hate is a strong word! You may not love or even like her, but please think about rephrasing your question!
You say you wish you love her. Have you tried communicating to her what you feel is lacking in her? What you desire for in your wife?Give her a chance to change so you may like her better. Also ask her what she needs in you & try & make some changes. Give your marriage a life line...If it still doesnt work.. Move on.
2006-11-17 02:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mock-mast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you hate your wife?
Less than a year is not a lot of time. You should really try counseling.
Why did you marry her in the first place? How long were you together before you got married?
Marriages take work. Both husband and wife have to work on it: communication, division of household chores, contributing to the income, etc. Then you also have to remember to include fun in your life. Take her out, buy her small tokens of your appreciation. Think of all the good things about your wife. Tell her how you appreciate her.
I would say your marriage just needs work. Go to a counselor.
2006-11-17 02:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by kristin c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a self reflection and ask yourself:
1 why do you hate your wife?
2 If you did love your wife at first what made you go from lovign her to hating her?
You have only been married for a year and you hate your wife, did you ever love her in before you got married? Hate is a strong word. You need to pray about your situation.
2006-11-17 02:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW - that is a very bold statement! Hate is a strong word! How can you hate someone that you only married a year ago?
We really need more details to be able to help you out. Why do you hate her?
I feel sorry for your wife. Just the fact that you can make that statement is very disturbing. If you truly feel this way, you should leave. It isn't fair that she be subjected to your disrespect.
2006-11-17 02:48:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a powerful word, and before you use it, realize what it means. Hate is the same thing as murder, not joke. If you are that unhappy in less than a year, then why did you even get married in the first place?
2006-11-17 02:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are married less than a year and you hate her?
That is pretty strong. Why do you? What has she done to make you hate her after promising to be with her for life.
Has she cheated? Do you just think she has cheated?
Get you real feeling together and if you know you can't continue to live with her get a divorce. No other options.
2006-11-17 02:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To say you hate your wife is pretty deep. I would suggest that you try to work things out through honestly communicating with her or perhaps you should get some counseling. Speak with your family members and see if they can help you out. But if you are truly unhappy and truly "hate" her, then I suggest you get an annulment right away and part as friends.
2006-11-17 02:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go to counselling. How can you hate your wife within such a short time of getting married. You're newly weds, this should be the best years.
You have to focus on the reasons that made you marry her. Good luck.
2006-11-17 02:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kidding? Wouldn't these feelings require time to well to the surface? Did you meet and marry? Shotgun wedding?
The answer is for you to figure out. How do the circumstances of your life bear upon what you now feel? What did you like about her? What do you think love means to you? What steps will you take to make your decisions?
2006-11-17 02:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by Em E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her, stop cheating her out of the ability to have a loving relationship. Speak direct and truthful be upfront and allow her to move forward finding happiness. You have no right to not tell her this is how you feel. And next time before marriage really make sure it is what you want. You have no right to rob another human of precious time let alone love. TELL HER and LEAVE
2006-11-17 02:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋