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I was wondering why american men prefer to marry oriental women?
Is it because they don't like being racist and they don't get along with caucasian women?

2006-11-17 02:00:20 · 18 answers · asked by April Ann Codon Cruz 2 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Other - Cultures & Groups

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"Oriental"? Why not just call us GOOKS while your at it! That is a very racist word to use, just say Asian if that is what you mean!!!!
I hate all the racist stereotyping I hear about Asian women being submissive and all that crap too!

People here try to sound like they are giving Asian women compliments but what they are subconsciously doing is being racist and ignorant without even knowing it!!!!!!

People, stop saying one particular type of women are very submissive and caring, every race has women who are like that but NOT ALL ASIAN WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT!!!!!!!

I am an Asian woman and most things the guys are saying are really offensive and insulting, sure I can see it as a compliment but how can I when they are complimenting on the facts that glory making white men feel good that the so called "submissive Asian" wife is doing everything for them like a little obedient servant?

I am a very outspoken independent Asian lady and it might be obvious by now that I am not a submissive little "yes" girl!!!!

Not all Asian culture objectify women you know! It may be so for the Chinese culture (which is really where the whole idea that Asian women are submissive came from) but it is not true for my culture! In my culture everyone knows women live longer so it is only logical for men to treat us with respect! I know for a fact that many of the Asian women in my culture also do not take crap from MEN!!!!

2006-11-17 05:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by ddDan86 2 · 2 2

I think you're wrong about who is marrying whom. It isn't that most white men marry Asian women. Upwards of 90% of white men marry white women. The real social trend you've touched upon is the relatively high percentage of Asian women who marry white men. I was reading a statistic that Asian women marry outside their race more than any other group. Black men come in second on that score. Not sure what's going on there, but I'm sure sociologists have lots of theories. The overwhelming majority of people still marry within their own racial/ethnic group.

Anyway, I'm all for interracial marriage. Mix it up I say!

2006-11-17 02:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by Rob B 4 · 1 0

i don't see that most caucasian men r marrying oriental women, but i know that some do,and it might have to do with how much more subserveint than others

2006-11-17 02:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by cc 4 · 1 0

If a Caucasian man marries an oriental woman it's because he's in love with her. It's not because he dislikes other Caucasian women. Personally I think it may be easy to fall for orientals because they are so well mannered and attractive.

2006-11-17 02:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

None of the above. From what I heard from men, oriental women are very submissive. They do what they are told without the argument, they cook, clean, take care of the children without help from men and don't complain. And, some oriental women body structure are look like teenage girls (makes you wonder why males prefer them over larger white women). But, don't forget they are also very beautiful people both inside and out, very generous and loving people.

Oh yes, french men prefer oriental because oriental women don't realise the difference in size, so they are not disappointed.

2006-11-17 02:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by Girls M 4 · 1 2

One incorrect, massive generalization deserves another, I say.
We prefer Asian women because they are compliant and will do a man's bidding without the constant bickering we get from Caucasian women. Most of whose idea of being "liberated" or "independent" becomes an excuse to lounge around on the sofa all day in their pajamas. Caucasian women could learn a thing or two from their asian counterparts.

2006-11-17 02:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

"Most caucasian men"...and "american men prefer to marry oriental women"?? I don't see this at all. I guess it just depends on where you live. I would hope to think that most people don't see color when they marry or date.
My only other explanation is this: because they have the cutest kids on the earth... (mine included) :) I'm a bit partial. :)

2006-11-17 04:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by the_proms 4 · 0 1

Most do not marry Asians.

Difficult to apply specifics to generalities. Education and environmental exposure determine a woman's outlook and expression. Most Asians comprehend the petty and the significant in life. They have a quiet strength and choose the significant and let the petty fall to the way. Woe to the male who steps upon her significant principles.

The Asian woman functions on two concepts: The true leader is a servant. And, you win by losing. That requires a lot of western thought.
The Asian woman controls without controlling. Submissive?

Nature protect the smitten man,
Forever clay within her hand.

2006-11-17 04:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by ipygmalion 4 · 1 1

No telling where this is but most married asian women because of their culture and up bring most of the asian woman like the old days, WHen the husband tell you to do something they do it without question. When the husband gets home it's all about the husband not them and in bed they never ahve headaches. Now in good old America it's hard for teh husband to tell a woman to do something without some drama from the woman and in bed, I don't feel like it, I'm too tired, and I got a headache. That doesn't work with asian women. To asain woman it's all about making their husbands happy.

2006-11-17 02:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Dear, They don't.
I don't know where you live that this is happening but I know very few caucasian men that are married to Asian women. Let alone "most".

2006-11-17 02:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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