Ihave bin engaged for 3 months but my ex-boyfriend does not seem to accept the fact.He either calls me or sends me messages saying that one day i gonna regret about my engagement and i'll definitely come back in his life again.He comes 2 my work-place to see me.I usually ignore his calls.But he keeps on persisiting --he says that he cannot live without me and i'll be the only love of his life.Though he has betrayed me once but thats 3 years ago.Am very afraid and i get the feeling that he is being obssessed.Am i right?plz help me
2006-11-17 01:31:13 · 7 answers · asked by manisha b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is not a healthy situation. Are you being stalked? I think you should tell him ONE TIME to not contact you again. And be sure you have witnesses to your telling him. THEN tell the police that you are very fearful of this person. They can't do anything at this point but they need to know. Ask the police for advice in protecting yourself. Don't go anywhere alone and watch your back ALL THE TIME!! There is some safety in numbers. If he calls, don't answer. If he comes to your work, report this to your supervisor and the police. A restraining order won't stop him but it will be a legal document on record if you need it. Do you live alone? You should not be alone while this is going on. I feel great danger around you. He may harm you or he may even harm your fiance. Does you fiance know about this? He must be told. Your lives could depend on it.
2006-11-17 01:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me,the guy is stalking you.get a restraining order promptly
before he injures you.I know you will say he is not harmful,that is what the last gal said before she got shot.At the least he does not respect you enough to respect your wishes.
2006-11-17 01:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like he doesn't exist anymore. Ignore his calls(change your #) and get a restraining order if you have too...My mom had to sometimes people get crazy..You will never know what he'll do
2006-11-17 03:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes mam he is obsessed. Are you afraid of him? Just don't be alone. He might really just be so in love with you, or either its a game of just wanting control. Only you really know the answer to this question you are asking. just be careful.
2006-11-17 01:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get a restraining order against him .
2006-11-17 01:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order
2006-11-17 01:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by jazzman6812 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop taking his calls - ignore him completely but first tell him you are engaged, about to be married, and he needs to move on. He keeps doing it because you keep letting him.
2006-11-17 01:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋