right! the man i love who lives with me cheated on me! he went out told me he went to chester and the girl then told me he was at her house he denied it so i put it at back of me head and now he wants to go out 2moz nite i dont know how am gona cope
2006-11-17 01:15:12 · 14 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kick his *** out, you find a proper man who knows where his own front door is
2006-11-17 09:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how well do u know this girl? can u trust what she's saying to u?
there is no point in having a relationship where there is no trust, it will kill u. give him the benfit of the doubt, talk to him and tell him how u r feeling, tell him what the girl told u and confront both of them...
if u are unsure than i wouldn't stay with him, lying and cheating is below the belt, no-one deserves that.. take a break..love is a two way street, if he's lying and cheatig thn he doesn't love u, and no-one needs unrequited love.
hope it works out for u!
:)
2006-11-17 01:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Purdy,
Is the relationship and your time togeather worth saving?
Do you still love him? IF so then you should have a sit down talk about if he's unhappy ...why ...is his ego needs stroking ...how .....what cna you do to make him feel loved and reassure him that you are both family.
Then tell him what he can do to better please you......tell him how.....tell him why .... let him know he isn't always "all that and a bag of chips" ...... tell him you feel uncomfortable with the Lady calling you ...why would she do this ...... if there is smoke ...could there be a fire?
Then see if you and he can make his evening plans for two --- you two!
Start over ...hit the reset button ...give it a shot ....if he responds you have lost nothing but alittle time....if he dosen't respond .... Recycle him!
Your there ..you see his body language, your hear the words he chooses and how he delivers them ...... only you can tell if he's being truthful ......
There is the odd chance this lady sees what you have and has decided to try and take it ...... keep whats your ... yours if it's worth it.
Be happy, Be confident, Be strong with your convictions.
Good Luck .
2006-11-17 01:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dump him and find someone else!!! Who will be reliable and honest!!! If you go out with him tomorrow he will continue to lie and abuse you.... If you have to go and see him take the other girl with you and you will know for sure which one is a liar or a cheat!!!
2006-11-17 01:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kick him out if you positive proof he did cheat, it will only happen again. Find someone you trust.
2006-11-17 01:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by dsclimb1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't live life with a partner you don't trust.
If he says nothing has happened why don't you believe him? have you being with guys that have cheated on you in the past? maybe you should give him the benefit of the doubt until you have proof.
2006-11-17 01:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Straight away,BIN!! You must be strong for you, so do not take any prisoners,be tough. You should have done this at the first whiff of infidelity.
2006-11-18 04:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is so important in a relationship but you really need to know for certain what happened but the only person that can decide is you i suggest getting him drunk all will come out then lol
2006-11-17 01:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by titchy_lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you told him what this girl told you? Sit him down and have a frank discussion with him. If he is cheating,tell him to pack his bags and go.
2006-11-17 01:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kick him to the curb!! I know it's easier said than done but come on he cheated on you!!!
2006-11-17 01:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by ACV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋