Is it wrong for a man or a woman to have extra marital relationship if he or she is not sexually satisfied with his/her wife/husband? What should one do in such a case to fullfill their sexual needs?
2006-11-17 01:15:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!!!! First you must communicate, communicate, communicate!!!!!! Then you can move onto compromise and experimentation.....the fun part. If the communication isn't there than I would suggest marriage counseling to help with the blockage. If after everyone has put their all into the relationship and have done everything (and I mean everything) they can to rectify the situation then maybe divorce should be discussed. I believe life is too short to be miserable. I also believe that you should NEVER commit yourself to another just to break that commitment by cheating. If you are that unhappy and it can't be fixed.....get out.... but by no means should you ever rip a person and marriage apart by having an affair.
2006-11-17 01:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Oracle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is ALWAYS wrong! Did your marriage vows state, "except in the case I am not sexually satisfied"? I didn't think so. You will just have to work out with your spouse something you can both live with. It may not be the exactly what you want but you did make a promise to each other and before God to forsake ALL others.
2006-11-17 09:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. You made a committment to God and your wife, and having an affair breaks your wedding vows. If your not happy then get out. But I can gurantee you that the grass might appear greener on the other side of the fence, but in the long run it usually isn't.
2006-11-17 09:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdreamin96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one. But when you make vows to each other, you each expect them to be fulfilled. Why not implement a new routine in the bedroom? Sexual therapy counseling? Cheating hurts. Really really bad. It's better to try working things out with the spouse.
2006-11-17 09:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by jackie_jackie_bo_backie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. If she wants her "sexual needs" fullfilled she should file for divorce and wait for it to become final then go in pursuit of fullfilling her sexual needs.
2006-11-17 09:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding???? Absolutely NOT....did your wedding vows say..."unless I'm not satisfied??
Why would you want to hurt the one you love???
Talk with your spouse...explain your needs...try new things, new positions, videos, ... make it interesting and fun again......
Got a hand?? use it!!
And, last but not least......get some counseling!
2006-11-17 09:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup it is really wrong, this way u cheat ur husband & ur bf both,, if u r unhappy wid marriage life or ur partner then give them divorce or if u really love them or cant loose them,then openly talk to them.
best luck!
2006-11-17 11:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your own personal morals and values and that of your wife......because you are married....you are one, then what is wrong and right is between you two. If she thinks it's wrong, then it's wrong.
2006-11-17 09:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by kurious kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... it is wrong. Can't really think of too many scenarios where this would be OK. (Morally, religiously, OR Legally)
2006-11-17 09:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - if that isn't an option, I guess you masturbate.
2006-11-17 09:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋