in 4 th grade i met a girl we became best friends 5and 6 we were still at the same school 7 not at the same school anymore but she is mean and she buys the same shirts that i have and the same stuff i think i dont want to be best friends or friends with her anymore
2006-11-17 01:12:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think that u should breakup your friendship just because that she buys the same shirts and stuffs.... I mean come on.... real friendship does not stop on shirts ..if she cares about u and helps u whenever u need help, then she is really a best friend..
if she is not....then I do not blame u of not being her best friend
2006-11-17 01:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have a jealousy issue! Forget about it, nothing you do is going to change the fact that she buys the same stuff....either she wants to be like you, or shes conceited and wants to steal the thunder. Whatever it is don't let it bother you because that is what she wants. She wants it to bother you that she is gettin the same stuff you have! Ignore her, and she will leave you alone, and maybe she will also stop buying all the same stuff! She'll see that it isn't bothering you and she'll forget about it all!
2006-11-17 09:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by Poor Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry. It sounds like the time has come for you both to look for new friends. That happens sometimes. I would not spend too much time being angry at her. I would just accept the fact that you are going in different directions and move on with my own life to some new adventures!
2006-11-17 09:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her a copycat and switch your style of fashion to prove it.
and remember sometimes when you become best friends in an instant, that could be your worst enemy. But if you end up having an enemy, they somehow could be your best friend for life. Can you believe that?
2006-11-17 09:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by hardworkur84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she makes you feel this way than you shouldn't be her friend anymore.she jealous of you she wants what you have.you have to be careful in these situations cause as time goes by shes going to want more of what you have.
2006-11-17 09:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being petty. The two of you just have similar tastes...maybe influenced by your friendship.
2006-11-17 09:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!!!!!!!! She bought the same shirt as YOU!!! She should be drawn and quartered!! Or a bullet in her head would work too.
2006-11-17 09:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ih8StupidPPL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be it is not intentional. Your likes may be the same
2006-11-17 09:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say you could talk to her and tell her you feel or.......................sorry to say or you have to break off the friend ship its your choice i mean if this was me i would talk to her and if she doesnt stop then i would not be her best friend anymore
2006-11-17 09:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is hurting you to that point you neeed to cut ties with her and find another friend because friends are not supposed to hurt you anyway
2006-11-17 09:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋